kodts Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 I get this all the time. Not because I'm fugly, but because I look like a little boy! That's usually not a good thing, in my case I think it's not so bad but usually they see me more like a little bro?? Of course this applies only to meeting online. It's not through dating sites, cause you'de post your picture. It's when I type something, or post something on some random site. Sometimes, a girl (or, shall I say woman) sends me a message talking about how much she loved what I wrote, how much she relates or something. But I can tell she's kinda flirting with me. I admit, sometimes I write in a way that makes me sound "manly". Like I must be this 6ft tall sexy sophisticated man, and that's totally not me. Well, except the sexy part lol. j/k. I'm more dorky. Short, tiny, dorky, kinda little bro's best friendish. I feel kinda bummed tho, sometimes. Because these chicks seem like.. awww darn. Not disappointed, just darn. They usually still stay friendly but it's obvoius I go into cool friend mode. Like, they switch from "sweety" to "buddy". It's almost like getting rejected without me asking for it. You know, they contacted me. Then reject me. Has this ever happened to you? Does your opinion change in an instant like that? Despite his words being what attracted you??
DunnoWhat Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 You say you're dorky and then blame your looks on getting rejected?? Don't be dorky anymore. Change your personality to a more attractive personality. What woman would want a dork? And women know withing seconds what you are like!!
Author kodts Posted June 8, 2008 Author Posted June 8, 2008 You say you're dorky and then blame your looks on getting rejected?? Don't be dorky anymore. Change your personality to a more attractive personality. What woman would want a dork? And women know withing seconds what you are like!! Oh, but by dorky.. I don't mean like the 1980 definition of dorky, I mean like.. you know.. uhh.. never mind. More attractive personality?? Oh wait, I might of given the impression I have a bad style or something that makes me look like a kid. No, I mean I just look really young. Like, I look like I'm a 23 yr old kid, but this is out in So Cal where it's a dime a dozen.. maybe that explains the misunderstanding of "dorky" cause that's kinda been the latest trend for the past 10 years for "dorky" to be a good thing.
Suiyobi Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 Lol dude I think I know what you mean by "dorky". It's like you don't have that manly, (maybe even metrosexual) look on you that a lot of women these days seem to fall for. And you say that looking 23 is really young? I'm 22 so damn I must be a "baby" then lol. Don't worry man, just keep your chin up, walk tall, keep your cool but start showing these ladies that you are a MAN, not a "little brother". Might help even to get a goatee or something to make yourself look a little older than you really are.
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