GuttedEnglishBloke Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 I got drunk last night at home. I knew my ex's email password and despite not contacting her, I looked at her email account. Yes, yes, I know how immoral this is. It seems that she moved in with her new BF only one week after we split. Her family really loved me and it seems she couldn't stand being at home because of this. I was doing so well, but now I'm devastated. I know where she lives and what car he drives. I've kept everything pretty much bottled up anger wise, but now I'm afraid I'm going to do something stupid.
kizik Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 That's very strange, because I made a thread about being tempted to do exactly that - hack into my ex's account. So you did it - you regret it - it's over. Try not to beat yourself up about it. You're human and you're destroyed by a break-up. DO NOT do anything dumb. Don't go over there. Go hang out with friends and flirt with girls. Make your own fun time. Seriously, don't drown in guilt about this. Just don't do it again!
PhoenixFromTheFlames Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 Yeah, as Kisik says, just don't it again. We've all been tempted, you're only human. You know now that it's not a good idea. The fact that she moved in with him to avoid facing up to what she did to you says it all really. It's the honeymoon period, her new bloke will start wondering if she's really into him, or just using him to get over you and avoid what she did. It doesn't sound like she moved in with him for the right reasons, and he'll know that. She really should stand her ground at home if he really means anything to her. Do not do anything stupid, you'll only feel worse. Get out of the house today, go for a run or go to the gym, burn off the excess energy in a positive way. You'll be ok in time, just keep reminding yourself of that fact.
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