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Keep heaping on the fertiliser

Too much fertilizer can burn you badly.
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In some ways, e.clipse, I think you're holding onto your childhood.

Excellent insight.

 

Anyway, I'm shocked at how few of you on this thread believe in true love. And the path of true love never runs smooth. I truly believe in my heart of hearts (I have a heart of gold - cold, hard, and metallic) that PP and e.clipse are made for each other. Like oil and water. I think, in time, he will come to terms with his emulsification. Or not. Life has no guarantees. Except that love is all around us.

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Too much fertilizer can burn you badly.

Good point. If PP keeps e.clipse damp enough, it shouldn't be a problem. It all kind of depends on his rate of growth, really.

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i think eclipx need the guidance of a significanlty older guy thats all

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Excellent insight.

 

Anyway, I'm shocked at how few of you on this thread believe in true love. And the path of true love never runs smooth. I truly believe in my heart of hearts (I have a heart of gold - cold, hard, and metallic) that PP and e.clipse are made for each other. Like oil and water. I think, in time, he will come to terms with his emulsification. Or not. Life has no guarantees. Except that love is all around us.

 

i highly doubt you are serious. but then again, i can't ever really tell. regardless, you made me laugh for the first time today.

 

thanks, nemo. :love:

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i think eclipx need the guidance of a significanlty older guy thats all

 

I would have thought so, too, but she doesn't like what I have to say.

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i think eclipx need the guidance of a significanlty older guy thats all

 

Yes, Uncle Burnee. I agree.

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my little niece just called me, and told me she wants to see me. she is 9 years old and looks exactly the same as i did, when i was her age. maybe that's irrelevant, but i can't help but see innocent remnants of me whenever i see her.

 

it's so sad. she loves me so much. she always gives me these huge hugs whenever she sees me, which is not often, given our familial distortion. but, she hasn't forgotten me. and she loves me no less.

 

i know you're not really supposed to have favorites when it comes to family, but she is my favorite niece. i hardly see my family, which saddens me greatly, but when i see her, it makes me happy.

 

it's just so unfortunate that i can't take my mind off this mindless drivel when i am with her. it's always with me, like a thorn in my side.

 

but what is even more unfortunate is that she writes me little letters and draws me little pictures, in which the message is always the same: i love you, you are my hero, and i want to be just like you when i grow up.

 

if there is any mercy and fairness in this world, that will never be true.

 

i don't even know what i'm talking about anymore. i'm just sitting here, all sad over everything, especially a guy who is just my It's Complicated.

 

well, maybe it's not so Complicated anymore. i just had a bad exchange with him. either he is truly and honestly in a bad mood, in general, or he has been thinking and has decided to act in this way with me, so as to blow me off for tomorrow and always.

 

the air is so polluted.

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Aww...

 

The little ones have me wrapped around their finger. Sometimes I envy that clean slate in life that they have, really...

 

Yup, the jealousy? I never understood that. I get jealous when the guy I like is with other girls - I thought that was the basis of jealousy anyway. I don't know if I'm missing something here. :confused: Oh well... That's over now.

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Holy crud, e. what did I miss?!

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Originally Posted by PP

i'm kinda sad.//I will make you sad.

it grosses me out.// You gross me out.

i can't be what you want me to be.//I don't want to be what you want.

i just can't be your boyfriend, is what i'm saying//I will not be your bf.

i don't have any other girls. //YET

i don't want to lead you on//I will though.

i don't want to hurt you //I dont' want to hurt you so when I do you had warning.

i care about you too.// but not enough to have anything real with you.

 

You have been fair warned.AND he gets to have sex with you on his empty nights. How very convienent.

 

 

 

I thank you for putting this up .

Your NOT bf is telling you that these are exactly the things he is going to do, and he is giving you perfectly fair warning in advance.Now that he has warned you , you have no grounds to get upset.

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Yes this has gotten messy and needs a decision in due course. Earlier the better. In the end you know one of you will have to bring up the subject of 'should we take it another step?' Cause this can't really keep going on if you are starting to have feelings for him. Either way you have to risk yourself at this point and get a straight answer. There are a lot of possibilities and at times it might not be in your favour but you just have to keep moving forward. If you're both emotionally attached and there are no big obstacles in your way then a relationship can start but if he isn't as attached and in the future finds someone, then you will be left there scratching your head. I guess the message I am saying here is that sometimes you need to protect yourself from the pain it might cause. You are clearly getting confused and frustrated and soon, the next process will be to know if there is a chance or clearly keep this in the friendsip zone and never think romance with this person again (either way, good luck). I am going through a situation from the aftermath, where we were great friends and it had to go to the next step for one party to know and in the end the chance was not possible. For me, it does get easier with time if you learn to accept it and move right along. Hope it all works out in your favour whatever direction you choose.

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