silence06 Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Okay I'm young so I'm kinda new at this relationship thing, so this question may seem stupid or whatever but please help. Is there types of girls that will be with many dudes just to be with them? I mean, I know the question sounds painfully obvious but I'm trying to reword my question so that it actually asks what I'm trying to ask. Let me see... Well theres this girl who like acted like she really really loved me, but she was talking to another dude at the same time. She did that twice to me but I forgave her, now I caught her again and told her I was done with her forever. After I caught her the first time she begged for forgiveness and said she'd never do it again; she did. Same with the second time; she did. Now I guess what my question really is, Why would she go through all that trouble if she was just gonna cheat again? Is there actual people who cheat just for fun without having any actual feelings for the people they are playing?
0hpenelope Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 There are people who cheat because they want to have the best of both worlds. There are people who cheat because they like the game. Then there are those who cheat because someone else has cheated on them in the past and are out to hurt as many as possible in order to get rid themselves of the pain - or at least they tell themselves that they can get rid of the pain by cheating on other people. I don't know why your ex-gf did this to you. I'm sorry. There is no other pain quite like heartbreak and it's different in every single relationship that ends. She knows that she has a back-up plan (you) in case things don't work out and even then, she won't leave you or the other guy because there's a thrill to what she's doing that's just too much fun to leave. Walk away from this. You'll find better and not all of us are like this girl.
Trialbyfire Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 It's the drama queen overneed for external validation. Someone like this doesn't have a strong sense of self, instead relying on external opinion to make her feel worthy.
justaman99 Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 It's the drama queen overneed for external validation. Someone like this doesn't have a strong sense of self, instead relying on external opinion to make her feel worthy. yup bingo
tinktronik Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Many young girls have not yet figured out who they are or want to be. So they define themselves by their clothes or makeup or guy they date. These same girls often need much male attention to prove that they are wanted or worthy or somehow better , so they seek the attention from wherever they can get it and as many males as they can get it from. Multiple males also draws the attention of their g/f who don't know much better and see this friend as wanted as well.
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