Making the first move -- bisexual or les POV

[CrudeMood]

As a bisexual girl, I've found it MUCH easier to snag a guy than a girl.

Although I'd more often like to be with girls sometimes, it just NEVER happens.

 

I've thought about it and girls just never make the first move. They just never do! I came to the conclusion that bi/les' must the stronger girls, emotionally wise, because they are prone to get rejected more than straight girls. Between two girls ONE girl has to make the move right?

 

I think its frustrating first of all being a girl too and not being used to making the first move. The whole beginning stages, not even dating, can be really , really confusing. In my experience with girls, they'll make it SO obvious with you, body language wise, but will easily act as if you're just another person. They'll put themselves in such a VULNERABLE situation and still will wait for the other to make the move. For example, my lady friend had followed me to the washroom, making us both alone in a small room, asking me to wait for her(obvious right?) but of course nothing happened because no one dared make a move both of us being girls and all. I do understand being a girl and guilty of doing that too but like.. ARGH.

 

I suppose someone has to put themselves out there first, putting themselves at risk of being shot down but it's just never been me which is PROBABLY why I haven't been getting much action with the ladies. Alot of the times both girls will play it coy and you know where that will get you.

 

Well kudos to those girls who have the guts to.

 

Any other ladies in the same position as me?

[CaliGuy]

I have dated bi-sexual women before and I agree with you, they are much more forward.

 

However you might not be "getting much action" from the ladies, not because they aren't forward enough (only the confident ones are which is what any man ... err woman I guess, would want)....

 

They just might not be bisexual or lesbian -- or they might not be attracted to you.

 

Either

And

Or

 

Cheers.

[CrudeMood]

Just to make it clear this was an more of an observation than a complaint

Just that no one else seems to have pointed it out before so