Lonelystar Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 I was doing okay, and then I heard this Snow Patrol song "You could be happy" and it just brought me to tears. I feel awful today, and I wish this pain would go away. "Is it too late to remind you how we were But not our last days of silence, screaming, blur Most of what I remember makes me sure I should have stopped you from walking out the door You could be happy, I hope you are You made me happier than I'd been by far Somehow everything I own smells of you And for the tiniest moment it's all not true" Here is the song if anyone wants to hear it be warned though, it is really sad. Music effects my mood so greatly. I hate missing him. I wish someone missed me that much. sorry for the rant guys... i just fell down today.
0hpenelope Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Oh I know that song. It's so sad... I'm sorry, Lonelystar. I relate to your pain quite well. It's this part that always gets to me: Do the things that you always wanted to Without me there to hold you back, don't think, just do More than anything I want to see you go Take a glorious bite out of the whole world It's part of the healing process, I think, to really tell that someone "Hey, ok. I can't blame you for how you feel towards me now - they're your feelings. You're sorry that you hurt me. I'm sorry that in order for me to heal, you can't be in my life - and you can't blame me for feeling the way I do for not wanting you in my life. So you know what? You go on ahead and do the things that you want to do. It sucks that I am choosing to not be there, but you wouldn't believe me if I say that given the circumstances, this is the best way that I can love you now - since you don't want me." Oh wow. Actually, that's to Lawrence. That entire quote is to him. I've been having dreams about him and right now, hearing that Snow Patrol song in my head is intensifying the longing. I'm here on LS to relieve the pressure. I'm making good progress, though. This is just one of those roller coaster times. Thank you for sharing. You'll get through this... loss. Whether it takes months or years, it's going to take time. It's just that the getting over part can't come soon enough, right?
Nevermind Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 I wish my ex would feel this way about me. It's a beautiful song.
foxh1234 Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Beautiful song, I am crying my eyes out though, lol.
justine4 Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Its funny how you listen more to the words of a song and can associate them completely when you're feeling low or going through a bad patch isn't it? If you have the time look up the lyrics (you can get it on you tube to listen to) for Singing You Through, by All Angels. Beware though - you'll definitely need the kleenex!
Trialbyfire Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 I avoid weepy songs like that, like the plague. It only makes it worse. I also find music affects me. It's kind of chicken and egg which is why I prefer to listen to the ones that pump up your adrenaline and strength. Even the more cynical ones are good to help maintain distance and defray weak moments.
0hpenelope Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 I avoid weepy songs like that, like the plague. It only makes it worse. I also find music affects me. It's kind of chicken and egg which is why I prefer to listen to the ones that pump up your adrenaline and strength. Even the more cynical ones are good to help maintain distance and defray weak moments. Oh I know. I've only been able to listen to a select # of weepy songs, but for the most part, any weepy song I hear still gives me that heart twist. Perhaps this is why I still have an appreciation for hip-hop, even though artists for that genre are incorporating the most ridiculous subjects in their music nowadays. I'm a fan of foreign music. If I want to hear romantic songs, I'll just listen to the composition and I'll know "Yeah, ok, this is a love song." It helps that I do not understand the lyrics of the song. I haven't heard "You Could Be Happy" in a long, long time. Everytime I listened to it, I cried. I know I will still cry.
Trialbyfire Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Oh I know. I've only been able to listen to a select # of weepy songs, but for the most part, any weepy song I hear still gives me that heart twist. Perhaps this is why I still have an appreciation for hip-hop, even though artists for that genre are incorporating the most ridiculous subjects in their music nowadays. I'm a fan of foreign music. If I want to hear romantic songs, I'll just listen to the composition and I'll know "Yeah, ok, this is a love song." It helps that I do not understand the lyrics of the song. I haven't heard "You Could Be Happy" in a long, long time. Everytime I listened to it, I cried. I know I will still cry. I know what you mean about listening to certain songs, regardless of the words. The melody can carry so much emotion.
jadedone Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 A new one that affects me. I Will Possess Your Heart by Death Cab for Cutie.
Author Lonelystar Posted June 9, 2008 Author Posted June 9, 2008 Music has such a big impact on my life. It is the one thing I turn too when life is falling apart. I know I need to get over this, and I wish time would speed up. I feel so alone, and I just don't understand love I guess.
CailinPig Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 This is the worst one for me, cos it explains everything of how I'm feeling; feeling like dying, feeling like why did it happen to me etc: Some say the heart is just like a wheel When you bend it you can't mend it And my love for you is like a sinking ship My heart is on that ship out in mid-ocean They say that death is a tragedy It comes once and then it's over But my one only wish is for that deep dark abyss For what's the use of living with no true lover And it's only love and it's only love That can break a human being and turn him inside out That can break a human being and turn him inside out When harm is done no love can be won I know it happens frequently What I can't understand please God hold my hand Is why it should have happened to me And it's only love and it's only love That can break a human being and turn him inside out That can break a human being and turn him inside out Some say the heart is just like a wheel When you bend it you can't mend it And my love for you is like a sinking ship My heart is on that ship out on mid-ocean And it's only love and it's only love And it's only love it is only love And it's only love it is only love And it's only love it is only love
route1 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 The broken clock is a comfort, it helps me sleep tonight Maybe it can stop tomorrow from stealing all my time I am here still waiting though i still have my doubts I am damaged at best, like you've already figured out I'm falling apart, I'm barely breathing With a broken heart that's still beating In the pain is there is healing In your name I find meaning So I'm holdin' on, I'm holdin' on, I'm holdin' on I'm barely holdin' on to you The broken locks were a warning you got inside my head I tried my best to be guarded, I'm an open book instead I still see your reflection inside of my eyes That are looking for a purpose, they're still looking for life I'm falling apart, I'm barely breathing with a broken heart that's still beating In the pain is there is healing In your name I find meaning So I'm holdin' on, I'm holdin' on, I'm holdin' on I'm barely holdin' on to you I'm hangin' on another day Just to see what you will throw my way And I'm hangin' on to the words you say You said that I will be ok The broken lights on the freeway left me here alone I may have lost my way now, haven't forgotten my way home this is lifehouse great beautiful sad son break up song. heres the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmTRsL6rJcM
sultry33 Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 This one is my thoughts exactly.. Lyrics: Enrique Iglesias - Somebody's Me lyrics You, do you remember me? Like I remember you? Do you spend your life Going back in your mind to that time? Because I, I walk the streets alone I hate being on my own And everyone can see that I refell And I'm going through hell Thinking about you were somebody else [CHORUS] Somebody wants you Somebody needs you Somebody dreams about you every single night Somebody can't breath without you, it's lonely Somebody hopes someday you will see That Somebody's Me That Somebody's Me How, How could we go wrong It was so good and now it's gone And I pray at night taht our paths will soon cross And what we had isn't lost Cause you're always right here in my thoughts [ Somebody's Me lyrics found on http://www.completealbumlyrics.com ] [CHORUS] You'll always be in my life Even if I'm not in your life Because you're in my memory You, will you remember me And before you set me free Oh listen please [CHORUS] Somebody wants you Somebody needs you Somebody dreams about you every single night Somebody can't breath without you, it's lonely Somebody hopes someday you will see That Somebody's Me That Somebody's Me That Somebody's Me That Somebody's Me and another which i told him is to him.. [FONT=Verdana][sIZE=5]EVANESCENCE LYRICS [sIZE=2] "My Immortal" I'm so tired of being here Suppressed by all my childish fears And if you have to leave I wish that you would just leave 'Cause your presence still lingers here And it won't leave me alone These wounds won't seem to heal This pain is just too real There's just too much that time cannot erase [Chorus:] When you cried I'd wipe away all of your tears When you'd scream I'd fight away all of your fears And I held your hand through all of these years But you still have All of me You used to captivate me By your resonating light Now I'm bound by the life you left behind Your face it haunts My once pleasant dreams Your voice it chased away All the sanity in me These wounds won't seem to heal This pain is just too real There's just too much that time cannot erase [Chorus] I've tried so hard to tell myself that you're gone But though you're still with me I've been alone all along he said he cant hear that song now.. [/sIZE][/sIZE][/FONT]
zalsa Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 Sorry To Myself Alanis Morissette For hearing all my doubts so selectively for continuing my numbling relentlessly for helping you and myself not even considering for beating myself up and over-functioning to whom to I owe the biggest apology? no one's been crueler than I've been to me For letting you decide if I indeed was desirable for my self-love being so embarrassingly conditional for denying myself to somehow make us compatible for trying to fit a rectangle into a hole to whom to I owe the biggest apology? no one's been crueler than I've been to me I'm sorry to myself my apologies begin here before everybody else I'm sorry to myself for treating me worse than I would anybody else For blaming myself for your unhappiness for my impatience when I was perfect when I was for ignoring all the signs that I was not ready for expecting myself to be where you wanted me to be to whom to I owe the biggest apology? no one's been crueler than I've been to me I'm sorry to myself my apologies begin here before everybody else I'm sorry to myself for treating me worse than I would anybody else When I wonder which crime is the biggest forgetting you or forgetting myself? had I heeded the wisdom of the latter I would have naturally loved the former For ignoring you, my highest voices for smiling when my strife was all too obvious for being so disassociated from my body for not letting go when that would have been the kindest thing to whom do I owe the biggest apology? no one's been crueler than I've been to me I'm sorry to myself my apologies begin here before everybody else I'm sorry to myself for treating me worse than I would anybody else
Byren Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 it is very weird how most songs can be linked to relationships in some way or another. I found he song "Exitlude" by The Killers related to my last relationship quite well because it was short, but sweet...Hell, any song that she sent me reminds me of her too! Aggressively we all defend the role we play Regrettably time’s come to send you on your way We’ve seen it all bonfires of trust flash floods of pain It doesn’t really matter don’t you worry it’ll all work out No it doesn’t even matter don’t you worry what it’s all about We hope you enjoyed your stay It’s good to have you with us, even if it’s just for the day We hope you enjoyed your stay Outside the sun is shining, seems like heaven ain’t far away It’s good to have you with us, even if it’s just for the day It’s good to have you with us even if it’s just for the day Outside the sun is shining, seems like heaven ain’t far away It’s good to have you with us Even if it’s just for the day It’s good to have you with us even if it’s just for the day Outside the sun is shining, seems like heaven ain’t far away here's the link if anyone wants to hear it...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyaYegSwnT8
Author Lonelystar Posted June 12, 2008 Author Posted June 12, 2008 Great song selection guys. Having your heart ripped out sucks so much. I wish we could just find the person we were meant to be, and that was that. Only if life was simple. I hate being a hopeless romantic, and wanting to find "the one". When I was in my relationship I never wanted anyone else, and never even thought of anyone else. Here is another song. Spiritualized-Broken Heart (one of the saddest song I have ever heard) "And Im wasted all the time Ive gotta drink you right off of my mind Ive been told that this will heal given time Lord I have a broken heart"
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