mortensorchid Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Months ago I posted about a stalker I aquired. He showed up at my house one night at midnight like a raving loon who I was 30 seconds away from calling the police on. I hadn't seen him since, but I did get one snotty email from him. It was an accident, I sent out an invite to all my friends on my contact list to see my Facebook profile and to join me as a friend on their Facebooks if they had them. He wrote back "After what happened why would you send this to me?". I had fogotten I still had his email address on my regular email account. Weirdo. Now just recently, I got a job working weekends at a pizza parlor. It's connected to a bar, and that seems to be where he hangs out most Saturday nights! He hasn't said anything to me, but he has seen me there. I wonder what he will do or say if I ever have to wait on him? I have my cell in my pocket ready to call the cops if he wigs out on me, but what if it costs me my job? I told coworkers about it as well as the manager.
tanbark813 Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 You should pepper spray him and hit him in the nuts with a tire iron just in case.
Nevermind Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Since he has been to your house he has done the following: 1) reply to an e-mail he got from you, declining to be in your face-book list 2) hanging out at a place, probably before you worked there Are you sure he is still going to stalk you or even care? Maybe he is over you?
tinktronik Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 You should pepper spray him and hit him in the nuts with a tire iron just in case. wow , I would say thats going a little too easy on him.
Meaplus3 Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Months ago I posted about a stalker I aquired. He showed up at my house one night at midnight like a raving loon who I was 30 seconds away from calling the police on. I hadn't seen him since, but I did get one snotty email from him. It was an accident, I sent out an invite to all my friends on my contact list to see my Facebook profile and to join me as a friend on their Facebooks if they had them. He wrote back "After what happened why would you send this to me?". I had fogotten I still had his email address on my regular email account. Weirdo. Now just recently, I got a job working weekends at a pizza parlor. It's connected to a bar, and that seems to be where he hangs out most Saturday nights! He hasn't said anything to me, but he has seen me there. I wonder what he will do or say if I ever have to wait on him? I have my cell in my pocket ready to call the cops if he wigs out on me, but what if it costs me my job? I told coworkers about it as well as the manager. This must make you very uncomfortable. I feel for you. You did the right thing by making your co-workers and managers aware of him. As for waiting on him? I would ask another waitress to take his order simply to avoid having any contact with him. Good luck. AP:)
Trialbyfire Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Every call reported to the police is logged. If I recall correctly, when he was raving at your door, you reported it to the police. Don't go anywhere alone and if he makes any kind of hostile overtures to you, you can report him again, making reference to the first case number.
Jilly Bean Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 I think you're trying to create drama where it clearly doesn't exist. It was MONTHS ago that he had his moment. I think he's more over all of it than you seem to be.
shanny Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 So he hasn't done anything recently? That's a good sign. Maybe he is over you... but I totally understand your fear because what you went through does sound very traumatizing. I would feel it out but definitly be prepared (good call on keeping the cell phone close and telling your boss the situation). You never know what will happen if he starts seeing you again on a regular basis... It could make him start up again. Just have someone walk you to your car when you leave and you should be fine. Other than that people will be around you the whole time so nothing to worry about.
DunnoWhat Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Months ago I posted about a stalker I aquired. He showed up at my house one night at midnight like a raving loon who I was 30 seconds away from calling the police on. I hadn't seen him since, but I did get one snotty email from him. It was an accident, I sent out an invite to all my friends on my contact list to see my Facebook profile and to join me as a friend on their Facebooks if they had them. He wrote back "After what happened why would you send this to me?". I had fogotten I still had his email address on my regular email account. Weirdo. Now just recently, I got a job working weekends at a pizza parlor. It's connected to a bar, and that seems to be where he hangs out most Saturday nights! He hasn't said anything to me, but he has seen me there. I wonder what he will do or say if I ever have to wait on him? I have my cell in my pocket ready to call the cops if he wigs out on me, but what if it costs me my job? I told coworkers about it as well as the manager. Maybe he doesn't want to say anything. He showed up at your house a few months ago 1 night and you call him a stalker??? Whats wrong with you??? Grow up and be careful what you say about people because if you're calling him a stalker it's a terrible thing to be labelled for having a crush. I knew a nutcase that said she was being stalked before too because a few men she flirted with were sending her texts messages and she didn't tell them she wasn't interested.
Art_Critic Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Are you sure your not the stalker ?.. first off after you deal with the issue you email him ??. WTF ??? Then you call him a wierdo for responding to your email with a WTF type of response.. Then you get a job where HE hangs out.. Did he start going to the bar after you got the job or did you get the job because he worked there ? Not saying he wasn't harassing you but if you go and try to get a TPO on him he will whip out the email showing you contacted him.. then he will prove he used to hang out at the bar before you got employed there.. I'd say that the best advice would be Leave him alone.. no sense in making this worse and then he would go back to harassing you..
spookie Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Are you sure he's stalking you? It's not like he attempted to get in touch after that night.
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