motive2002 Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 I hope someone got some use out of them while they still existed. They're gone now Something else to try and cope with hehe. Maybe I'll re-write the buggers this weekend, or come up with something else. A lot has happened in the past couple months in regards to my own healing. It still hurts. I still take each day at a time, but it's nowhere near as bad as when I first signed up here. There is hope. There is recovery. I am feeling it. It's been nearly 2 months NC for me. It hurts that she never even once called, e-mailed or anything, but at the same time I guess I should be grateful for it. I hope everyone here has a good weekend, I'm glad to see the forums back online. I'll be here contributing in some form or another. Take care ~motive
sunshinegirl Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 motive, you wrote some amazing stuff. maybe it can be recovered, or maybe if you are inspired you can recreate new versions of some of it at some point. I have drawn a lot of strength and encouragement from your own resolve. Thank you.
Kamille Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Motive and Sunshine, I'm sad your threads are gone, because I definitely clicked on all of them, even when I had no inspiration to respond. Strange isn't it, having lost all those moments of pouring our hearts out? On my side, since I've been emotionally stable for about a week, I can't help but feel that the loss of posts is akin to turning the page on the break up. Sunshine, I hope you start another "epiphany" like thread. That's the one thread I thought about when I found out about the lost data.
Author motive2002 Posted June 6, 2008 Author Posted June 6, 2008 Strange isn't it, having lost all those moments of pouring our hearts out? That would make it twice then? Once during the relationship, and afterwards here on the boards? I guess it's energy that is expended into nowhere. Lost in the stratosphere with all the unpaired socks from the laundry. Why are things so fragile? Why is it that bonds with friends and family are like Stonehenge, while romantic relationships are like a house of straw?
sunshinegirl Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Hi Kamille, I'm glad to hear you're doing well. I am not doing well. I wish I had the insight/perspective/grounding to write anything from a strong place right now, but I mostly feel really bad. I find it so hard to keep perspective, and then I get mad at myself that I have to have friends and family repeat the same things over and over and over to me because it doesn't seem to STICK in my brain. SO - at this point any new thread I might start would more likely be "i'm pathetic and miss him" than "I am woman and he is an asshat of questionable character!"
Nevermind Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 SO - at this point any new thread I might start would more likely be "i'm pathetic and miss him" than " *cough* Sunshinegirl, it's okay to feel sad. Just take your time.
LikeCharlotte Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 That would make it twice then? Once during the relationship, and afterwards here on the boards? I guess it's energy that is expended into nowhere. Lost in the stratosphere with all the unpaired socks from the laundry. Why are things so fragile? Why is it that bonds with friends and family are like Stonehenge, while romantic relationships are like a house of straw?Its really a shame about your articles. Romantic relationships can be Stonehenge too. It is just a matter of making someone your family. You know this. Also... you play WoW!
Author motive2002 Posted June 6, 2008 Author Posted June 6, 2008 Its really a shame about your articles. Romantic relationships can be Stonehenge too. It is just a matter of making someone your family. You know this. Also... you play WoW! You have a new private message. Grats on being established! Still waiting for Stonehenge. It will probably wind up like the one in "Spinal Tap" haha!
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