jadedone Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 ANyone get weak and break NC? Myself i'm on day 6 and doing fine. I"ve remained invisible online but unfortunately the ex has only been online once during this time, so I doubt she has even noticed yet.
motive2002 Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 I wondered the same thing. I felt a real need to post in the "Post here instead of Contacting your ex!" thread in the coping section. Fortunately I had a nice lady to talk to, and level 44 paladin with some quests to do (World of Warcraft hehe)
roghornio Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 Lots of contact post finishing up… now none.. weeks since we last spoke… I’m guessing she must be with someone else now cause we used to talk quite a bit. I thought about emailing or phoning, but then I was thinking what am I going to say… utterly pointless. Can’t even remember what it was like to hang out with her anymore it’s been so long… months… it’s all faded away into what seems like another lifetime, everything si so dim and distant. Crazy…. Still wont go near mysapce or facebook though. I do wonder what I would do if I bumped into her or if she messaged or phoned me… hmm……… We still have friends in common, but I have no interest in asking what she is up to, and when they mention her or what she’s doing, I try not to pay any attention. It is strange however that people who are “her” friends still ask if I’m going out with her. I can safely say i'm well over it all now. Thank god :lol:
borelandkaren Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 I went to Brisbane, applied for a new job. Got it!!!!! Went after that and saw my brother. He's asked me to move in with him, so all is going quite nicely. Blows me away though. 4 months ago, we were talking about buying a house, etc, etc, now I'm in another phase of starting a new life. WTF! The creepy thing is, I could probably go back there now and he'd "forgive" me for doing all the things I had to do to get away from him and then pull me back in for the next round. This time though, he'd probably start the physical violence, so, NO, I didn't break no contact. And never will. I like being alive.
Nevermind Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 karen: Great news!! Congratulations on the job!! I broke contact. But not because of Loveshack.
JustPassingThru Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 I went out with some friends last night, drank way more than I should have and ended up sending her a text message at like 1am.... I'm an idiot.
borelandkaren Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 karen: Great news!! Congratulations on the job!! I broke contact. But not because of Loveshack. Thanks, darlin'. It is good news. And don't ever despair about wanting to contact your ex, any of us. It is a very natural thing to want to speak to and hear the voice of someone we've loved as we've loved them, each and every one. We can all only advise. It's ultimately up to each and every one of us to make the decision of yes or no. Just because it's dangerous for me to contact Tony, doesn't mean I don't want to. I still remember good times but the bad times were too terrifying for me to contemplate ever drawing myself back into it again. No Contact is really the only way to go, we all know and understand this but the reality of life, unfortunately, is that sometimes what the heart says far outweighs what the head says. We all just have to do what's best.
Nevermind Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 You know, whenever you write Tony I think for a moment you're talking about the moderator. You're doing great karen. Keep it up!
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