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Hi All

 

Not sure where to begin but I will try.

 

Started seeing this guy about two months ago. We get on very well and have a laugh. He travels a lot with his work and his Ex feeds his cats while he is away. Now i did not have a problem with this as such until last saturday morning. We had gone out the night before and walked home. As we were walking home a car passed and my fella told me that it was his ex's sister. I passed no comment and we went home. The next morning he received a text for his ex saying that he was seen with a blonde walking home the perivous night (me). That text he told me about. But she then proceeded to keep on texting him for 20 mins none of which he told me what they said.

 

I am a bit confused as to what it is she is playing at as it is not something i would do to my ex.

 

Do you think I have need to worry?

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I would ask him what he was texting her about and if it had anything to do with me. I'd also ask him why the ex doesn't know about you if they are so close that she is feeding his cats and they are texting on a regular basis.

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Is she really an ex? The whole scenario is fishy.

 

Even if she is his ex, this guy is still emotionally (at the least) involved with her. He always could find a new cat sitter, and if she wasn't a priority he would have been annoyed at her nosiness and have made it clear that his dating life is none of her business.

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