shyguy816 Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 im 16 y/o in highschool and there is the girl in my last class that i have wanted to talk to all semester but i didn't have the balls to do it till now...when theres only a week left in the school year and if i dont make a move soon i wont see her till after summer. when ever we talk its just kinda small talk like "how was your day" and "i just sneezed and broke that chair" but anyway we get along pretty good when we talk its just she never approches me, i have to walk up to her. she is not shy at all i am shyer then she is and im the one going up to her every time. when we talk she seems happy to see me and we talk to we gotta go to class or w/e. its just she will never start talking to me which makes me rly confused if she is intersested in me or not. i dont want to ask her to go out i just want to be freinds for now...get to know her and let her get to know me and everything....mabye eventually date. half the time though im chacing after her in the hallway tryin to talk to her. pls somone help me i only have 5 days of school left .
Suiyobi Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 It could be of either two things, 1) She's actually shy compared to you, or 2) She doesn't like you the same way that you like her, but she doesn't see you as a threat and therefore allows you to approach her. If a girl is really interested in you, she would attempt to flirt with you or at the very least carry on longer conversations with you rather than the small talk that you mentioned. I'm no pro, but the only thing I can suggest is to just keep your cool, elongate the conversations whenever you have the opportunity with her, but otherwise don't go chasing after her. It seems like girls these days aren't into desperate guys lol.
Author shyguy816 Posted June 5, 2008 Author Posted June 5, 2008 thanks for the advice. ill try and prolong the conversations mabye we could get to know each other better.
Nightsky Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 Your expectations are not realistic. If you start talking to a girl and she responds in a pleasant way that is about as well as it is going to go and you should be happy with this. You shouldn’t expect her to now seek you out and initiate conversation. It is almost always the responsibility of the man to be the instigator of a relationship. If you like this girl, you should approach her in a flirtatious way and take steps to starting a romantic relationship. If you approach her as a friend and then later try to get romantic with her it would only hurt the chances you would have had if you had just tried to make a good first impression. Be confident, funny, and tease her in a playful way that’s fun for the both of you. Go to a party you know she’ll be at and give her a good kiss.
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