Author LoveLace Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 I get the feeling you secretly like the attention this guy is giving you by calling so much. Why else would you keep mentioning it? If he was really doing nothing at all for you, you would just ignore his calls. I notice you tend to look for validation a lot from guys. But you end up settling for crumbs because you feel that's the best you can do. You stay in situations too long that are unhealthy with guys who don't treat you well because they're throwing you scraps. If I liked the guy and liked him calling me, I would say so. And remember since I only settle for "scraps", I am certainly not used to a guy who calls me every god forsaken day, it's such an extreme change from a guy who only calls sometimes, that it can be annoying...especially if I am not into him. And I DID ignore a few of his calls...when he asked about it later, I just said I'm not a person who likes to talk every single day. I have nothing to hide here. And actually as of now, we haven't talked or seen each other since last weekend. I have no clue why he decided to stop calling, but I am not complaining. I've told a couple of our mutual friends that I have a crush on his roommate, and they are encouraging me to pursue it because they know Ken (the roommate) and think he's a great guy. At 1st I worried that I would have to tell X I was no longer interested, but since he stopped calling, everyone seems to agree with me that I'm not obligated to explain that to him now, and that I should call his roommate. One of the mutual friends gave me Ken's phone number and they keep saying "life is short.." Guess what...just got invited to an outing of which BOTH guys will be there (the 2 roommates)...I don't know if X is expecting me, but if I get Ken alone the truth is going to come out. And perhaps X will be surprised that I don't want an explanation for sudden disappearance....perhaps X suspects I have another crush already..who knows...I'll fill ya in....I"m feeling suspensful he he
Author LoveLace Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 Ah well...neither guys actually showed at the gathering tonight. They didn't even know I'd be there. I was just ready to tell Ken I liked him but I have his phone # so no biggy. I thought it was strange to hear they'd be out anyway, because they are not much of the going-out type..just a little rumour spread in that circle of friends I guess...
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