shyguy816 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 im 16 y/o, theres this girl in my last class of the day in school that i have wanted to talk to all year and just finally started talking to her a week before school is over, i only see her last class of the day inless i see her in the hallway every once in the while.....we seem to get together fine when we talk and when we do talk we talk till we have to go our seperate ways. she is not shy at all, if anything im the shy one but it seems like i always have to walk up to her and start the convo. she seems happy to see me when i walk up to her but she will never walk up to me and say anything. i dont know if she just doesn't want to talk to me or is playing hard to get. half the time im pushing kids out of the way to catch up to her in the hallway so i can talk to her. pls somone help me out...i rly like this girl but just want to start out as freinds....dont want to come on to hard.
J2FT1 Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 . half the time im pushing kids out of the way to catch up to her in the hallway so i can talk to her. I'm in a similar situation. Only thing is I'm pretty sure my girl digs me back. Same age bracket too.
Pocky Posted June 6, 2008 Posted June 6, 2008 If you just want to start as friends then just be friends for now. Don't even worry about whether or not she's interested in you. If she is and you progress in your relationship you'll be able to see the signs easier since you will understand her more as a friend. Otherwise, screw the friend crap and just ask her out (I'm assuming you have a car). Be bold. Be confident. Women swoon over men with a bit of arrogance, a lot of self-esteem and the balls to take the first step. Worst case she says no.
DunnoWhat Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Don't be chasing her down the hall. This will make you look desperate for her and women hate men like that although you both are young so maybe different rules apply??
J2FT1 Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 If you just want to start as friends then just be friends for now. Don't even worry about whether or not she's interested in you. If she is and you progress in your relationship you'll be able to see the signs easier since you will understand her more as a friend. Otherwise, screw the friend crap and just ask her out (I'm assuming you have a car). Be bold. Be confident. Women swoon over men with a bit of arrogance, a lot of self-esteem and the balls to take the first step. Worst case she says no. If someone was willing to do both, which option would you honestly reccomend?
Pocky Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 Ask her out. Rarely do 'friendships' turn into romance. It's usually the other way around.
Keridan Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 Ask her out. And dont specify date or friends. Let that part work itself out. Tell her you want to hang out sometime and suggest something that could go either way. Bowling, coffee, a day at the park, etc. Play it cool, they are right that the girl likes some cockiness and likes to wonder a little whether or not you are hitting on them. Just don't push it too far. If you think she's into you and you are into her, make a move. If she's not down, you lose nothing. She won't hate you because you tried to hold her hand or kiss her. Being scared and worried is your enemy. Be cool and confident and assume she wants your attention, even if she may not want your affection. Good luck!
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