tikster Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 well my situation is in more detail on my previous posts. but to sum it up. we dated for two months and getting intimate. so seeing as how our relationship was undefined and he wasn't giving me indications that he was interested in becoming my boyfriend, besides me "hanging out with him" i got insecure. i did the wrong thing and asked him if he wanted to end things, but i wanted to talk in person. to spare details we never talked i sent him an email explaining that i was confused and wanted to talk about working on communication and possibly developing a relationship. it seemed like he just ignored me all weekend. then five days later he wrote me a break up email and i was just so hurt that he wouldn't even talk to me even though we agreed to speak in person. so i didn't even respond and there has been no contact since, which has been a little over a month. was i wrong in not responding? it didn't seem like he had any respect for me so i didn't want to dignify his facebook email breakup with a response. i am still surprised as to how he handled this whole thing. we hadn't even seen eachother for over a week close to two weeks before he sent the email break up.
justaman99 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 ehhh. break up over facebook and not willing to talk in out in person is immature. let it go. You should have waited to talk to him in person instead of sending the email on communication in my opinion. Also, you said he wasn't giving me indications that he was interested in becoming my boyfriend, besides me "hanging out with him" so he probably didn't care to be in a relationship.
Author tikster Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 yea you're right. and to be clear i sent him the email two days after we agreed to talk. i had called him the night before and he never returned my phone call cuz he was going to a concert later that night nor did he acknowledge the fact that we agreed to talk. so it was he who was ignoring me. i was all about talkin in person. oh well. i just wish i never met him he was a big waste of time
justaman99 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 oh well. i just wish i never met him he was a big waste of time Not a waste of time. You realize you need someone that won't run away from you or respect your needs. When/If that happens next time you'll know that that person isn't right for you, and you move on. Learn from this. -Just
v33 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 If you thought he was a big waste of time why did you want him to become your boyfriend? Anyways, it doesn't sound like he was going to commit. You made it easy for him to get out by that email. No point in being with some guy who isn't that interested in you.
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