ismellsogood Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 I was at a party a few weeks ago and spotted a guy that seemed really nice and he was really hot, too. I got really drunk at the party, and after talking to him for awhile, I decided it would be a good drunken idea to have one of my friends tell him I think he was hot. So, he did this, and my best girlfriend also told hot guy that I'm a good girl. Keep in mind I'm not in high school...I'm in my 20s... and I had my friends send these silly messages out of my impaired judgement. He did end up coming over and talking to me privately, but was this a mistake when it came to letting things happen naturally? Do you think I've made it uncomfortable by letting him know these things off the bat, especially through my friends? I'm gonna see him again this weekend and I wanna know your opinion and also how you think I should handle myself when I see him again...
SeraBella Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Who knows? You'll get a ton of different responses on that question. You could have made him uncomfortable, maybe not. It does seem a little immature, which it seems like you know, but it's never a very good idea to try to meet someone new when you're really drunk. If he wants to see you again, then maybe he's interested and didn't really care. It's not worth stressing about, though, because there's nothing you can do to change it. All you could possibly do is apologize for your behavior if it was horrible, but if it wasn't there may not be a need for an apology. When you see him act yourself, and don't get drunk. Let him see what you are like sober.
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