guy4576 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 my girlfriend told me last night that part of her does not want to be with me. She says she is often uphappy, and that its not my fault, its hers and that right now she doesn't see herself ever marrying me. Says she does not feel free to do whatever she wants and that i never surprise her with anything and that im often boring to her. She says she would like to go out with other guys, but she knows that would bother me and that i mean more to her than going out with any guy. THEN... she said she just knows that she loves me and that right now she wants to be with me and she couldn't leave me because she was afraid that she would never find someone as good as me. She says im the perfect guy for her and too good to be true and that that sometimes scares her. Im so confused. What could all this really mean???
tinktronik Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Your g/f is giving off too many mixed signals. Sounds a if she does not want to be in a R (with you ) right now but is perhaps afraid of being alone. Either that or she is just being cruel for the sake of being cruel. I would not stay in a R on these terms.
thisishowitis Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 my girlfriend told me last night that part of her does not want to be with me. She says she is often uphappy, and that its not my fault, its hers and that right now she doesn't see herself ever marrying me. Says she does not feel free to do whatever she wants and that i never surprise her with anything and that im often boring to her. She says she would like to go out with other guys, but she knows that would bother me and that i mean more to her than going out with any guy. THEN... she said she just knows that she loves me and that right now she wants to be with me and she couldn't leave me because she was afraid that she would never find someone as good as me. She says im the perfect guy for her and too good to be true and that that sometimes scares her. Im so confused. What could all this really mean??? You're her girlfriend. The solution to your problem is to be a man. Not to pretend to be a man, but to actually be a man. Workout, become cut and muscular, don't be afraid to speak your mind, meet new people, get out of your comfort zone. There is no quick fix. It's a difficult, painful process but it's what you'll have to do. That is the only way she won't see you as her girlfriend.
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Says she does not feel free to do whatever she wants and that i never surprise her with anything and that im often boring to her. She says she would like to go out with other guys, but she knows that would bother me and that i mean more to her than going out with any guy. She is telling you that she plans on dating other guys soon, and that she will lie to you and hide it from you. Unless you perhaps fix this problem with being boring. Do you give her lots of attention? Are you jealous or controlling? How romantic are you on a 1 to 10 scale?
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