borelandkaren Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Funny how things work. I've been putting a few things "out to the universe" as one of my girlfriends says and it's starting to come back. At Xmas time, my x and I went to Melbourne. We hired a car and when we were taking it back to the car rental place, he drove through a red light. The car was hired in my name, so when the fine came, it came to me. I told him that I wouldn't take the fine because it also incurred 3 demerit points against my licence and my record is clean. He said "no worries, I'll sort it out, you shouldn't have to." This was until we broke up. He never did anything about it and it was looking like I would end up having to cover everything AGAIN! Anyway, I sent a letter off explaining what had happened and I got my prayer answered today! They have turned everything around onto him and he has to pay the fine and gets the points taken off his licence!!! As it should be. Sucked in!! I'm hoping now that like every other situation, he is too lazy to do anything about it and does not contact them because the truth is that he could turn it all back to me but for the moment, I'm rapt!!! I'll deal with anything else as it comes but now it's all good!!! KARMA!!!:laugh::pPs: Not really looking for replies, just letting you guys know that sometimes good does come out of the bad feelings.
Author borelandkaren Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 Thanks GPFan! It's all made my day!
motive2002 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Karma is a bitch, and so is my ex-girlfriend. Hopefully someday the two will align, and all will be right with the universe.
0hpenelope Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Karma is a b*tch and when I'm offended, so am I. Motive, the universe has come into alignment. At least, with me. Good for you, borelandkaren! Citations on the record are never a good thing. Insurance premiums (is that what they're called down there, too?) going up is never good with gas prices as they are. Hm... I don't wish Lawrence ill. But I don't wish him well either and even if he is well, I don't need to be there. Yep, I'm balanced. It's all good from here.
justaman99 Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 I don't really believe in karma. I look at it more like this. You do bad ****, bad **** happens because that's what you associate your life and actions around. Like your guy not taking responsiblity for his actions. It won't just disappear, it's because he was irresponsible. You treat people well people will treat you well. It's all about who you are and your actions. You rob or beat people, you're in for the same. You are caring and giving, people that are the same will be drawn to you. If you lie and cheat, people will see that and treat you like **** or drop you. If you help others and are nice, others will be the same in return. I'm glad you stood up for yourself and took the effort. It wasn't your fault.
sunshinegirl Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 I don't really believe in karma. I look at it more like this. You do bad ****, bad **** happens because that's what you associate your life and actions around. Like your guy not taking responsiblity for his actions. It won't just disappear, it's because he was irresponsible. You treat people well people will treat you well. It's all about who you are and your actions. You rob or beat people, you're in for the same. You are caring and giving, people that are the same will be drawn to you. If you lie and cheat, people will see that and treat you like **** or drop you. If you help others and are nice, others will be the same in return. I'm glad you stood up for yourself and took the effort. It wasn't your fault. I wish I could believe the bolded part. My ex's new hooch girlfriend doesn't seem to mind that he lied/cheated on me. His best friend, who is married to my good friend, clearly knows what an **s he was to me, but he's not going to drop the friendship because of it. My ex's ex-wife lied to/cheated on him and guess what? She's getting married on Saturday to the other man who by all appearances is a really decent guy. I am caring and giving and try to help others and am nice. So far it feels like the universe is pitted against me, while the liars/cheaters get off completely scot free. That's what kills me.
Crestfallen_KH Posted June 5, 2008 Posted June 5, 2008 I wish I could believe the bolded part. My ex's new hooch girlfriend doesn't seem to mind that he lied/cheated on me. His best friend, who is married to my good friend, clearly knows what an **s he was to me, but he's not going to drop the friendship because of it. My ex's ex-wife lied to/cheated on him and guess what? She's getting married on Saturday to the other man who by all appearances is a really decent guy. I am caring and giving and try to help others and am nice. So far it feels like the universe is pitted against me, while the liars/cheaters get off completely scot free. That's what kills me. Sing it, sister! If I believed in karma, then I'd have to believe that I somehow deserved my husband lying and cheating on me and leaving me for another woman. And I can't even begin to imagine what I could have done to deserve such a horrible thing as I have always been a good person. I volunteer with animals, I've been a kind and sympathetic friend and daughter, and I have always been the type of person to take pain, work, and hurt on herself rather than see others suffer. I'm glad the OP got out of the ticket but I don't believe it's karma - it was just the right thing happening at the right time.
Author borelandkaren Posted June 6, 2008 Author Posted June 6, 2008 I am caring and giving and try to help others and am nice. So far it feels like the universe is pitted against me, while the liars/cheaters get off completely scot free. That's what kills me. U know what? Don't let bitterness take you over. What Just said is completely right. Up until tonight I wanted every bad thing that I thought of to happen to Tony. I was ****ty because everything in my life has had to change and nothing in his life has had to. The fact is, I can do it. He can't. He's going to be stuck in the same career (concreting) until he can't do it anymore because his mind is too closed off to anything else. And then, that's when his karma will really kick in. He'll be too ****ed out to work anymore (something that terrifies him is getting old) and he'll have no-one around him because he's been so nasty to everyone and used them all up. That's when I'll sit back and see the payoff. And by that stage, my life will have taken completely different turns and I won't be very interested in seeing that either. Don't let it eat you away. You're better than that.
justaman99 Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 I wish I could believe the bolded part. My ex's new hooch girlfriend doesn't seem to mind that he lied/cheated on me. Give it time. She doesn't mind now but odds are **** will happen again. His best friend, who is married to my good friend, clearly knows what an **s he was to me, but he's not going to drop the friendship because of it. Why would he drop the friendship? His friendship shouldn't be influenced by him cheating on you. That friendship is a separate relationship based on different things between guys as buddies. My ex's ex-wife lied to/cheated on him and guess what? She's getting married on Saturday to the other man who by all appearances is a really decent guy. She could easily f that up as well. I am caring and giving and try to help others and am nice. So far it feels like the universe is pitted against me, while the liars/cheaters get off completely scot free. That's what kills me. so be happy these people are out of your life. You don't cheat and lie and disrespect those you care about so you're better off. You're in a better place now or should feel that way.
Nevermind Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Sunshinegirl: A friend who finally called me told me one thing: they might be together now, and as happy as it gets, but the seed of doubt is there. On both sides, neither will ever fully trust the other. They may be happy but they will never reach that level of trust and love that you can reach. They will never know how great it is to trust someone, to have a good concious. You will. This is your karma: not the bad things happening to other people, but the good things that will happen to you.
HeartOnSleeve Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 Karma is amazing!! These posts are great and if you don't believe in Karma...today is a good day to start. My ex's friends who tried to sabotage our relationship and won got what was coming to them this week. One didn't pass the CA Law Bar and he fell in love with his ex again and she dumped him AGAIN. Then his other friend who cheats on his GF all the time got caught and is crushed and all alone! LIFE IS GOOD. Be good to yourself and other, they will get what is coming to them even if it dosn't seem like it now...Karma can take days, weeks, months, or years, but it will come back those who treated you wrong. Kill'em with kindness and treat others the way you want to be treated.
kizik Posted June 7, 2008 Posted June 7, 2008 I have no ill will for my ex. If anything happened to her, I'd be very sad. I care for her and still love her. Waiting for the day when I no longer love her... Karma coming back is great if your ex betrayed you... if you simply grew apart, the last thing you'd want is something bad to happen to your ex.
HeartOnSleeve Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 I have no ill will for my ex. If anything happened to her, I'd be very sad. I care for her and still love her. Waiting for the day when I no longer love her... Karma coming back is great if your ex betrayed you... if you simply grew apart, the last thing you'd want is something bad to happen to your ex. I too, have NO ill will towards my ex, but his friends are another story.
Trialbyfire Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 You can call it karma but realistically, you helped karma along.
HeartOnSleeve Posted June 8, 2008 Posted June 8, 2008 You can call it karma but realistically, you helped karma along. Hahaha....your right, I wish I had helped his friend fail his CA Law Bar exam, make his GF break his heart and as for the other guy, I definalty wish I had been the one to tell his ex she was getting the short end of the stick for the past year.....hahahaa. To bad it was Karma and not me.
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