daniel12er Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 ok so basically me and this girl became friends last year after she split up with her ex bf. After a while we got really close so i told her how i felt, she said she cared for me alot but didnt want a relationship. Which i accepted and we continued to be friends and its been great. Since then we've got really close and i love her more than anyone else in the world, but her ex bf has come back onto the scene and she seems completely smitten with him, but theyre not back together, just friends. I dont understand this as this guy isnt very nice and has done some awful things to her and has dumped her 4 times in the past for other girls. Today i found out through a friend that shes told him she loves me but thinks we fit more as friends than in a relationship. But i dont want to accept this cus shes made no effort to see if we work in a relationship and because i didnt want to jepordise our friendship iv tried to avoid doing or saying things which she may perceive as relationship based. Unfortunatly along with this she also told my friend that she wants to be with her ex, but he just sees her as a friend. my problems are as much as i hide it from her i want to be with her more than anything and this new information has just confused me. I fear that her ex is just leading her on for his own needs and it will end up with her getting hurt which i dont want to happen, but if i say anything to her i look very jealous. any advice would be very welcome ps iv tried getting over her but it just isnt working
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