jordan x3 Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 i dont know what to do with myself hes holding hands with other girls and i just have to sit there and watch.. i keep crying and crying because i know i dont deserve this. this boy broke my heart and idk if theres help people can give out.. like ways to distract myself it would be appreciated thanks
Lonelystar Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 I am sorry you have to see that. Try to avoid situations where he is with this girl, if you can. Listen to music, read a book, or do something you love. It is hard, and will take time but you can do it. I hope you feel better!
0hpenelope Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 There's help. It's just that you're not ready to take it because you're still grieving. I really do feel for you. This is exactly how I was like a few months ago - crying, freaking out, wet pillow, unfocused. When you're ready to... Only when you're ready... you'll realize that you're getting tired of crying over someone who has chosen to not be with you. And then you can start from there. I refuse to see Lawrence with his... new girls. I was going to use another word to call them and no, it's not the word people usually use to describe a girl they despise. Just let it out. I grieved for 1 1/2 years. The length of time grief takes is different for everyone and don't let anyone dictate how much time you "should" take to get over things. When your grief starts to consume you and affect your daily life (if you're going to school, your grades, etc.), seek help okay? Always, always take care of yourself.
Exl Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Just let it out. I grieved for 1 1/2 years. I grieved for almost 4 years the last time, even though I did get a new gf in the middle (stupid mistake, I liked her but wasn't enough and I ended up hurting her feelings...).... I'm afraid it'll take longer this time, if things don't work out. :/ Although it is a cliché to say it, this time it meant SO much more to me I think I haven't even truly started to realize the true implications if this "space" doesn't work out. There's not even a basis for comparison with the other situation... I'm afraid. Love really messes you up.
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