dmb05 Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Hey guys......My old youth pastor's wife called me up Last Friday and asked if my ex and I were still dating. I told her no that we had broken up in February and she said that was good becasue she had someone she wanted to set me up with. I said okay and she told me who it was and so on. So, I added the girl on Facebook/Myspace. I was originally supposed to meet up with her and her friend last Friday but was unable to. So she finally got online last night and we talked for a good while on Facebook. I got her number and we texted back and forth for a bit and I told her I would call her today. So I did call her and everything seems great. She's totally different from my ex and so much more mature. We are going bowling this Friday night, so I hope it goes great! The only problem is talking on the phone. I always feel like I get boring because I can't think of much to talk about sometimes it seems. I for one do not like being on the phone multiple times a day, and I think that's why my past relationships have gotten stale after awhile. I would be on the phone for hours each day with my other exes and it just got boring. I don't want this to happen with this girl, so I wonder how I could see how she feels about being on the phone all time as well? If things went well Friday night, I was thinking about going ahead and asking her if she wanted to be "officially" dating or whatever. She seems really nice and really interested in me!
Luv2Laugh Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 f.y.i-it's not healthy to talk to your significant other multiple times a day. Ya might want to limit conversations to a brief phone call during the night-hi, how was your day-etc. Stuff like that...then conversations aren't boring and you have more to talk about when you see her on your next date:rolleyes:
Art_Critic Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 f.y.i-it's not healthy to talk to your significant other multiple times a day. What is unhealthy about it ? There are husband and wife teams that work at my work.. they talk all day long... When I go home I talk to my wife.. I have never played games like that with a relationship.. if you ind up talking or calling or emailing your BF or GF a few times a day it is perfectly healthy.. What isn't healthy is putting off your own life for theirs.. or sitting by the phone waiting for them to call.. go out and live your life.. and if you talk to your SO a few times a day.. good..
Author dmb05 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 I guess I wasn't too clear lol................All of my exes are the ones I was on the phone with hours each day. I don't want this to happen with the new girl. I've only talked to her today for about 25 minutes on the phone. All of my other girlfriends would get mad at me though if I didn't stay on the phone with them or came home after church or whatever to talk to them. I mean we were on the phone ALL the time. Wherever I was going, if I was at home, if I was on vacation with a friend, I had to be on the phone with them all the time. This new girl seems really awesome and I just want everything to work and not go the direction all of my other relationships have been. I think I will just limit calls to a few minutes per day and then hang out during dates and other stuff.
Author dmb05 Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 Also.........my dad usually gets season tickets to our main college football games. He usually gets 4 seats. I was wondering if I should mention to this new girl if she would like to go with us starting in the end of August? Or is that too soon?
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