Baldy Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 I am in the middle of reconciling a relationship. It may work out, it may not. We were going out for a few months then split for a few weeks. We are back in communication and planning on going away soon to see if we can sort 'us' out! My question is this: It is her birthday on Saturday and I am not sure if I should get her anything? If I should, what? I was thinking about maybe just a nice card or something - I have not been in this kind of situation before so don't know the rules. Any thoughts much appreciated! PS As this is a very delicate time in our relationship, I want to be very careful and not risk blowing it!
Tony T Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 If you a trying to reconcile, you better be pretty nice to her for her birthday but just don't overdo a celebration. I would get her a very nice card, a small...simple gift, and take her out to a moderately nice dinner somewhere. After all, it's not like you're strangers...you are trying to get back together. Just don't make a big issue out of the evening but be sure she knows you're wanting her to have a nice birthday. If she's not available on her birthday, get together with her on an alternate day.
PurpleAngel Posted July 23, 2003 Posted July 23, 2003 I would get her a nice card, and write something that will explain to her what she means to you. I would get her something else to do with it though. I am not sure what she is like so I can’t suggest appropriate things BUT I would say at the least get her some lovely flowers. They always go down well in the sweet and romantic department. Maybe take her out to dinner at a nice restaurant too! Good Luck ~PurpleAngel~
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