nab0610 Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 ok so me and this girl my first love dated about a year and half things got rough we broke it off sorta mutual...sorta not...more or less ended up being me or cigarettes several other factors were involved but she said she wasn't at a point in her life where she wanted to give up smoking so we ended it ok well it was real hard for both of us we talked and texted some and hung out a couple of times nothing ever really happened...i left to go home for summer and we've talked twice on AIM, but i've been avoiding AIM and haven't talked to her in over 2 weeks now...however it doesn't seem to be helping i'm having at least a bad day once a week my question is theres this girl at my work who's engaged and i've become real good friends with her, but in a short time...should i talk to her at all about what i'm going through because i don't really have any close female friends and i'm more of a face to face person than an internet person... Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 Just talk about your problems on here. You remain anonymous instead of burdening your friend about your relationships. As for your ex, you're still holding on to memories of her. You've got to leave the past behind and move forward. Do not dwell on wanting to contact her or messaging her on aim, take some time away from thinking about her by busying yourself with other activities. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nab0610 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Share Posted June 3, 2008 thats the problem i face i work alone for 8 hour shifts at least 3 days a week which is when i have problems...i've tried staying off of aim because i really don't want to talk to her because she's made it apparent she only wants to talk to me when its convenient for her when she's sitting at her computer bored with nothing to do Link to post Share on other sites
tealeafbud Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 my question is theres this girl at my work who's engaged and i've become real good friends with her, but in a short time...should i talk to her at all about what i'm going through because i don't really have any close female friends and i'm more of a face to face person than an internet person... If she's engaged, I hope you wouldn't see anything more than just friends. Try and join some social clubs, your church, or sports teams. Link to post Share on other sites
sedgwick Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 Really? You broke up with her just because she smoked? Damn, that's harsh!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author nab0610 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Share Posted June 3, 2008 more to it than that dude told her before we started dating that i never wanted to date someone that smoked...she knew that and she started smoking a year into our relationship...she hid it from me for a month because she was a waitress so i just assumed she smelled a lil like smoke from work... well she told me she'd quit over christmas break but it turns out she just started doing it again behind my back...now to me thats a little more than just smoking and no i'm not trying to do anything with that girl who's engaged she's 4 years older than me and has a kid so i'm only interested in her as a friend Link to post Share on other sites
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