topgunfan Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Ok, My ex gf and I just broke up a couple of days ago. One thing that we agreed to was that we get back on our feet, make some changes for the better and then get back together. Am I wrong and actually making a big deal out of nothing when she spends time on the phone with one of her past ex's? We are in Oregon and he is in NY. For some reason it seems to me that if we are working on trying to at some point get back together, that we would not do things to make the other person upset. She already knew that I did not like it. Is this a sign that I should move on? Or am I just making a big deal out of nothing.
kizik Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 You broke up, agreeing you'd get back together? Hmm. My ex and I broke up and talked about getting together this summer... until we realized we weren't good for each other. If you're breaking up in the first place, it means you / she / both people aren't happy. So why get back together? Regarding the ex bf, she has a right to talk to him since you're broken up... but she knows it pisses you off, yet she's letting you know she's talking to him. This girl sounds like trouble. You are def. not making a big deal out of nothing. What part of Oregon? I live in P-Town.
Author topgunfan Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 I live in Salem, Oregon. Yeah, I know she has a right to talk to him, but my issue was that If we were later on going to try and get back together, then why do something hurtful like that?
kizik Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Because girls rebound like f*cking basketballs and it sounds like your chick can't stand being alone, even for a minute. Attention-craver type.
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