Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Scenario: Met a guy recently. Brother of the guy I had a crush on for a long time. Brother a lot nicer, also cute and funny. Hooked up a couple of Fridays ago. Next morning, he asked me if I was available after the event I had that night. I met him and his friend later that night for drinks. We went home together. The next night, before Memorial Day. I was out with a bunch of people. I texted him and told him where I was if he wanted to come over. He was at a BBQ but said he would be out later and would keep in touch. He texted later and asked if I was still out, but I was on my way home. I told him such and he texted back, I guess another night then? To which I replied, sounds good! No contact until this Saturday. He texted me to tell me his friend was in town from LA and would I like to meet them out later that night? My response? Thanks for the invite, would like to go but I am out of town for the weekend. He responded, Great, have a great weekend. So, I thought that my response was positive. Like yeah, I want to hang out, but not this weekend. I didn't offer any other night or anything. Neither did he. Do I wait for him to call/text, or do I call/text him?
D-Lish Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 I think you're in the clear CB... you have had mutual exchanges and have just been unable to hook up. He texted you last- you couldn't meet up.... so I think it would be okay to send him a reassurance text if you feel like it. "what's up?"
Tomcat33 Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Have you slept with him already? I think given the that he only seems to invite you out along when he goes out with friends, hasn't made a proper date to see you along, he may have something in particular in mind. I wouldn't make a move, let him come to you. and preferably if he wants to see you one on one not along with his friends. If he can't part with his friends for one night to see you and get to know you it sounds like he is not that interested in getting to know you....just my observation of course.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Have you slept with him already? I think given the that he only seems to invite you out along when he goes out with friends, hasn't made a proper date to see you along, he may have something in particular in mind. I wouldn't make a move, let him come to you. and preferably if he wants to see you one on one not along with his friends. If he can't part with his friends for one night to see you and get to know you it sounds like he is not that interested in getting to know you....just my observation of course.r That's a quite interesting observation tomcat, I shall take note of that as well. As for OP, it seems you guys always miss each other. If you want to hang out with him, don't be afraid to make a date.
Jilly Bean Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 I think the next time he is looking for a booty call, he will contact you. OR, next time you are out with your friends and ask him to meet up later for a hookup, its OK to text him for that, too!
Author Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 Have you slept with him already? I think given the that he only seems to invite you out along when he goes out with friends, hasn't made a proper date to see you along, he may have something in particular in mind. I wouldn't make a move, let him come to you. and preferably if he wants to see you one on one not along with his friends. If he can't part with his friends for one night to see you and get to know you it sounds like he is not that interested in getting to know you....just my observation of course. I think we met in a casual way, and it is sort of a casual thing right now, so i don't see anything "wrong" with what's happened so far. In fact, I kinda need something a little more casual right now. If we hang out again, and again and again, I think I will be able to tell if this is just a hook-up type thing or if it becomes something more. Right now I am just enjoying the attention from a hot 25 year old
Author Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 I think you're in the clear CB... you have had mutual exchanges and have just been unable to hook up. He texted you last- you couldn't meet up.... so I think it would be okay to send him a reassurance text if you feel like it. "what's up?" Yes, I agree, as soon as I get my phone back...my dumb ass left it at my friend's house WAY out of town! I lose more phones, I swear...
Tomcat33 Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 I think we met in a casual way, and it is sort of a casual thing right now, so i don't see anything "wrong" with what's happened so far. In fact, I kinda need something a little more casual right now. If we hang out again, and again and again, I think I will be able to tell if this is just a hook-up type thing or if it becomes something more. Right now I am just enjoying the attention from a hot 25 year old Well then if it is as casual as you say it is and you are just in it for the attention of a younger guy no strings attached, why are you hyperanalizing the situation and complicating things? Call him and get on with it.
Author Cherry Blossom 35 Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 tomkat, I actually don't know what I want from this guy. I'm just having fun going with the flow to see what happens. In the past, I would analyze and WORRY about what is going on. Now I'm analyzing for fun
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