Dolorian Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Hi, this is a very delicate situation I have here. My ex girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago. We had NC for only a week, but she initiated contact and I wanted to be nice and replied to text messages or even calls. We hung out a few times, made out once or twice, and started about getting back together. This was of course a stupid move now that I think about it. Anyways, we talked about dating again. She got her own apartment and I semi moved in (I was there most of the time). It looked like everything went fine and we had a good time. She even said she thinks about dating me again. I was so happy at this moment, because she is the one I was looking for my whole life. Dated plenty of others, but she just seemed perfect in every aspect. So one day she just comes out to me and wants me to leave her alone. I know me being there most of the time probably annoyed her, but she was the one who told I should stay with her. Well I left her alone for a few days, but we barely talk anymore. I also found out that her ex boyfriend is back in the picture. She will always like him, because he was her first everything. This of course hurts me. One day I went to her place to get some of my stuff and I saw that she replaced pictures of us and even turned one picture of me around so she doesn't have to look at it. I was like, WTF? Didn't say anything to her for a while and she never called or texted me. It's like she had 180 turn within a night. She wants to remain friends with me now, but can't be in a relationship with me. When I ask her how come the sudden change, she just says it's none of my business. I told her when somebody hurts my feelings it is of my business. I secretly think she hooked up with her ex boyfriend and just doesn't want to tell me. It sucks, because I was going to propose to her and now she is glad we are spending some time away from each other.
motive2002 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 It's like she had 180 turn within a night. She wants to remain friends Um, no? Why would you want to be friends with her now? Read that sentence over and over. It hurts to hear it, but it's time to move on. I mean right now! Go back to NC. Let her live with her decision, and start looking for someone else. She isn't worth it. Stupid flaky people.. I had the 180. It's not nice. I wanted to smash her face in
Author Dolorian Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 It hurts to hear it, but it's time to move on. I mean right now! Go back to NC. Let her live with her decision, and start looking for someone else. She isn't worth it. Stupid flaky people.. I had the 180. It's not nice. I wanted to smash her face in I'm moving on. I try to avoid and ignore her. I was pretty heart broken for a week, but I'm slowly getting better. I just cannot understand her mood swings. In some way I feel like I'm the only one who is (was) hurting. It doesn't even matter to her how I feel right now and that's what pisses me off. How dare she just go back to her ex-boyfriend (who broke her heart a couple of times but nevertheless she likes him? wtf) and act like nothing ever happened between us? She just goes out with her friends and lives her own life, which is fine, but I feel like she doesn't give a sh*t about me. Whatsoever. I can't believe she has the nerve to do that. If I'd knew that it was hard on her to I think I feel a little bit better about the whole situation. It just makes me angry and unappreciated for all I have done for her. I told her today in a text message that I guess we are done talking. She replied with "Dont be that way." I was furious. I'll be that way because I'm done being treated like crap or being the "go-to-guy" when the ex goes away again (because I know he is going to China for two months). I told her "U are the one who is avoiding and ignoring me..but whatever." Trouble coping. Trouble coping... Trouble coping? Yes. Trouble coping. It sucks so bad. It's not fun at all. Why's it have to be this way? When is she gonna call me again? No, it's not fun. Especially when you know that she just goes on living her life and you are alone and hurt. I don't care when she is calling me again.
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