ScarredStar Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Since Friday, I pretty much cut all contact with my ex. Except then on Saturday night, I got assaulted by a group of guys in the street, as did two male friends. We are all okay, but I texted my ex and told him because I knew he would want to know all the same. So through that we got back in to texting again, just casual conversation. On Friday (I think!) we had agreed to talk about things the next time we bumped in to each other, which could be a long time away. He dumped me over text, did the whole discussion over text...I just feel my questions have not been answered. So today I texted him just to say I cannot wait until the next time I saw him to talk because it was driving me crazy, so I asked him what he was up to this coming Saturday. He texted back and told me to leave it until next Saturday because tomorrow he is going away to see his brother for 10 days. So I'm finally getting 'the talk'. I dont know whats gonna come of it. I was told by a psychic (shhh now haha) that he will return to me in the near future, because he regrets it and things when too far, and that there is positive changes to come. Does anyone really think that its possible for him to be lovely, attentive, all the good qualities and then just suddenly says he only sees me as a friend? Nothing changed between us before we broke up, nothing was wrong...I still dont understand.
motive2002 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Wow, sorry to hear about your assault. I hope you're ok. Does anyone really think that its possible for him to be lovely, attentive, all the good qualities and then just suddenly says he only sees me as a friend? Nothing changed between us before we broke up, nothing was wrong...I still dont understand. People break it off for a bunch of reasons. You could try to figure it out and analyze it to death, which will keep you from healing. It's likely you may never know for sure why, unless you have a mutual friend that gives you the inside scoop. (which I wouldn't recommend even going there) I think your psychic is off base. I mean, even if he did come back, do you think it would be 'lovely' like before? Let me do some fortune telling of my own and say that it probably won't. Once someone gets to the point of making a decision like ending a relationship (which is a difficult decision to come to) it usually means something is really wrong and chances are there's no way to repair it by then. I'd say go back to NC. If he really wanted you back 100%, he will bend over backwards to win you over. Sending a few texts isn't bending over backwards. If he's being flaky, it's time to say goodbye and look for someone interested in investing their time into you.
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