MJR Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Well at least D didn't invest too emotionally into it. We all know she's a smart girl, and knows what she wants. I believe you.
sfsassy Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 I dated a perfectly nice guy fgor 6 months years ago, thinking that the, chemistry would develop, as he was so sweet, intelligent, and we had similar interests. Never happened. I tried. I hated making out with him, and at one point said I didn't want sex before marriage, lol. (yeah, right) He was very hurt when we broke up, as he thought he had been good to me, and he had. On the other hand............ There is this colleague who I now like, when one year ago, I told another coolleague no way, when he asked if I was intterested in the first colleague. (The second colleague is like a ffather figure and wants me to be married, lol.) But I've seen him in many different settings, and he just impresses the heck out of me. The difference in the second case it is wasn't something I at all tried to force, it just happened gradually to now where I really, really like him.
AriaIncognito Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 People might think I'm weird for saying this, but I can tell within minutes of meeting someone if I'm ever going to end up dating them. There's just something unspoken there, I can't tell you what it is, but I just know in my gut. I've always been this way. It's depressing because it's often hard to have/find that feeling. I did have it back on new years eve this past year, and with someone i never saw myself dating because he was out of my normal age range, but well, we are dating, so there you go it was right again lol. I'll never understand it, but chemistry is definitely something that has to exist in person from almost the instant you meet, at least for me.
BentSpine Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 His gaze is his call into the wild. Her extended eye contact is an answer.
Author D-Lish Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 Well at least D didn't invest too emotionally into it. We all know she's a smart girl, and knows what she wants. Thanks PC- I didn't go in overly hopeful... It would have been nice if we clicked though. He was really nice! I think he was a little intimidated- mostly because we have been talking for so long that we both built things up. I felt at ease immediately though- which is a sign to me there was no spark! If I feel a spark- I can get a little nervous. On to the next I suppose. I have to e-mail him today and broach the friend subject!
jerbear Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 I'm sad now. Not only did I NOT get a peanut, I didn't even get a rush from the date. Hey D, well hope the friend thing goes through but make sure those boundaries are there. Don't string him along or let him cross those boundaries. Don't let that peanut and beer lure you in! Hey pretty lady, I have some peanuts and that beer you like...
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