youngbuckkk Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 My ex dumped me about 5 months ago, never came back and wanted to reconcile, but would contact me every now and then to see how I was doing. I pretty much gave her the cold shoulder after she rejected my one attempt at going out for coffe a couple months ago. Now recently my gma got sick and she found out and wanted to come see her so I saw her and we chatted a bit. She went from being this sweet innocent girl with me to a total party animal now so she's definetly not the same girl I was with. When we were talking we got to our lovelifes and I ended up telling her I hooked up with one of her friends. She was surprised and said it was disrespectful. I told her I didn't see it that way because she had made it clear that she had lost all feelings for me. She said it didn't hurt her or anger her but I definetly noticed a change in her demeanor after I told her about it. We hung out a while that day and I suggested we go to the movies later this week which she agreed to but didn't seem ultimatley thrilled about it. What should I make of this? Does it sound like she wants me back or is it just being friendly? BTW the reason she broke off our LTR of 3.5 years was because things were getting stagnant and boring.
Author youngbuckkk Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 I posted this is the break ups section as well but didn't get many responses. Any input or advice?
t_veron Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 You're annoying bro. I read your other post and you DO NOT LISTEN. Everyone pretty much said the same thing and you go right past that and make up more stupid excuses why it was okay for you to screw her friend. Let me make this simple... you never screw her friends unless you want to lose her. You're done and if she has half a brain she's done with you. She's probably building up resentment in her mind right now so she can really really hate you. She probably already knew you slept with her friend which is why she wanted to get back together one last time to let you know how she's been partying and sleeping around. It's like a big FU before dumping you. Give up on her. Even if you two get together she's always hold this over your head. Not worth the problems.
Author youngbuckkk Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 You're annoying bro. I read your other post and you DO NOT LISTEN. Everyone pretty much said the same thing and you go right past that and make up more stupid excuses why it was okay for you to screw her friend. Let me make this simple... you never screw her friends unless you want to lose her. You're done and if she has half a brain she's done with you. She's probably building up resentment in her mind right now so she can really really hate you. She probably already knew you slept with her friend which is why she wanted to get back together one last time to let you know how she's been partying and sleeping around. It's like a big FU before dumping you. Give up on her. Even if you two get together she's always hold this over your head. Not worth the problems. I didn't sleep with the freind, just hooked up, she had no clue of this. And I just don't see how it's wrong when you are the one who got dumped. Isn't that more disrespectful then me going with her friend? Her dumping me and expecting to limit my pick of women.
t_veron Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Getting dumped sucks. We've all been there at one point or another. I'm no stranger to it either. People move on for different reasons and you'll go nuts trying to figure out what they are. Best thing to do is to leave it in the past and move forward. Whether you hooked up or screwed her friend it's all the same to her. She doesn't know if you're lying or not so she'll assume the worst. Once trust and respect is gone you can't get it back. You guys had a blast but now it's time to move on. Besides, you're leaving out the fact she's been partying and which usually ends up in sleeping around too. Even if you two were back together can you forget that she's been around with other guys now? Doesn't matter who's fault it was for the breakup. Think of this experience as your first used car you bought. The next one will get better and the next one after that even better until you're driving the ultimate ride you want. Since women are a smarter in the relationship department they already know this.
Author youngbuckkk Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 Well she told me she's hooked up with a lot of guys she said shes only slept with one, maybe she's lying though. I duno, you are right though I should just let sleeping dogs lie and move on.
jadedone Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 Well she told me she's hooked up with a lot of guys she said shes only slept with one, maybe she's lying though. I duno, you are right though I should just let sleeping dogs lie and move on. Rule of 3 youngbuckkk, she slept with 3 guys not one.
Author youngbuckkk Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 You people are all right. I just needed to clear my head with all this. She's not worth all the drama for some a$$. She disrespected me so she's dun. I'm going back to the friend lol.
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