cpotter15 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 5 months, recently we have been bikkering about silly little things. All my fault as i have relised i was only doing it for attention. Last saturday after another bikker, he said he needs a week apart as he has alot to sort out this week and he has, his grandad died recently and it was his funerall on Tuesday, he was very close to his grandad, also he has alot of work to do this week, not getting in till gone 7 as he has been so busy. He also has to get aload of college work done this week, that needs to be in. Therefore i left his on saturday, feeling so rubbish, he text me that night making sure i got home ok and saying sorry for upsetting me. He then text me two general messages sunday and monday asking if i was ok and what i was upto. i replied, been light and friendly. Tuesday came and it was his grandads funerall, i text him that moring say my thoughts are with you for today and he didnt reply. I text him thurdsday asking him how tuesday went and how is he feeling, he didnt reply. Then it came to saturday and the week apart, is supposed to be over, so i called him saturday evening to ask him wats going on, he did not answer and has not bothered to call back. therfore i have not spoke to him since last monday evening. Not gonna try anymore. but someone please tell me what on earth is going on? I found out that he went out with his mates this saturday night, so he is talking to them, but why is he choosing to ignore me??? please someone help x
mark982 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 seems to me that he's had enough of your bickering.i think he's moved on. sorry.
jadedone Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Try disappearing for a week or two. Don't call, write, text, anything.
borelandkaren Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 seems to me that he's had enough of your bickering.i think he's moved on. sorry. He may well have done so by the sounds of things. As Jadedone said also, steer clear for awhile. He's had a lot on his plate and probably truly needs some space. U know, this doesn't hurt from time to time. If my partner had let me have any space and didn't keep me with him 24/7 for 5 1/2 years, I'd probably still be there now. Don't pressure him, sweetheart. Boys deal with things differently than girls. Chill. If he comes back, he's yours, if he doesn't, he never was.
systemic7 Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 No offense, but it didn't really sound like you spent a "week apart" given the continual communication that went on. Of course, I know it must be painful, and I would say slightly suspect that the relationship would take this detour, but regardless perhaps you should wait a week this time before trying to get in touch with him?
Exl Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Try disappearing for a week or two. Don't call, write, text, anything. I second that. But don't bet too high on hopes.
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