lyran Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Ok well this girl has started to say "love you" at the end of msn conversations and ive known her in real life for a few weeks now and we've really clicked but i always just say ok cya when she says love you, bye n stuff and it's like ive done nothing to show her that i love her. I want to tell her that i like her as more than a friend basically after a few minutes of normal conversation and i need some suggestions as to the words to use. I can't just blurt out i like you, or i love you on its own but i dont want to be corny or cheesy either. Help?
Author lyran Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 really need help on this guys im going to talk to her tonight
Siphon9a Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Why not just simply start out with asking some floating questions about doing stuff with her and spending time in the future. Like going on a trip or something in a couple months. Lead that into the love you comment and just flat out ask her where she see's this going. If you think she digs you then she'll tell you, if not she'll let you know she only wants to be friends. Either way at least you'll know where you stand.
MJR Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 The next time you talk to her get into some fun conversation, get her laughing or something, then just hit her dead on with: "Hey, why don't you come out on a date with me." 3 seconds. Boom. You'll know where you stand and don't have to go out on the love limb with someone you haven't even been out on a date with yet. Or you can be all cryptic and try to read the subtle signs through the game playing. Whatever.
torranceshipman Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 This post is sooo cute :) I think she has a crush on you, and that's why she signs off with sweet stuff and is probably waitin for you to ask her out!
Author lyran Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 yeah I know that but I don't know how to tell her, as for asking her on a date i see her quite a lot as it is, i'd rather just get it over and done with, get everything out in the open so to speak instead of dating then doing this thing for longer etc.. etc..
Cov Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 If you are scared of asking her out face to face, ask her out over msn and then if she asks why you didnt tell her in person, just be honest. She'll think it is cute, trust me on that one.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 yeah I know that but I don't know how to tell her, as for asking her on a date i see her quite a lot as it is, i'd rather just get it over and done with, get everything out in the open so to speak instead of dating then doing this thing for longer etc.. etc.. that's unadvisable. Most guys like to be courted, it shows that the guy is putting in the extra effort in pursuing them. Please do not jump the gun. Try asking her out first, or hanging out with her to actually see whether the both of you have chemistry.
Author lyran Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 i know all the consequences all im looking for is a well worded sentence or paragraph to tell her i like her like that
xpaperxcutx Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 i know all the consequences all im looking for is a well worded sentence or paragraph to tell her i like her like that Well then go " I like you, do you want to go out with me?" That's as straight forward as it goes. But are you certain that you like her enough to pursue long term relationship with her? Or do you want to come off as leading her on if you don't feel that certain something? Don't be irrational.
Author lyran Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 I'd love for a long term relationship. Any better wording than that its very 1st year at high school material.
Green Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 You are going about this all wrong, there is no magic sentance you can type to her that will lock this up for you. You need to ask her to hang out and spend some face to face tim with the girl. Get cute with her, hold hands, kiss, cuddle, enjoy yourself. You can't plan this all out like some word problem.
Author lyran Posted June 10, 2008 Author Posted June 10, 2008 i have been hanging out with her a lot as a friend, i want to tell her i like her as more than a friend how do i do this, this was the whole point of the thread. Read plz
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