Author mopar crazy Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 Ah, so WF and HG were correct. Sorry, I read it quick and took it as you were going through it now. So basically he left you for an OW, you two got back together, now HE is giving you sh#t? Oh hell no. He should be down on his knees begging you not to leave him and not to give him a right deserved b#tch slap. LOL ts! Yep, that's basically it in a nutshell. He cheats, leaves me for OW, begs me to take him back, and then he is the one that is all pissy and jealous when a guy talks to me. I had someone tell me awhile ago I should just cheat then he will have a reason to be so untrusting and jealous. Of course I wont do that but damn, if you aren't going to trust your SO at least have a good reason not to. He didn't trust me even b4 the contact w/ my xlover. I know why he is so mistrusting and jealous, it's b/c his xfiancee cheated on him when they were living together. He moved back and I met him about a year later. He has admitted to me that is one reason why he is the way he is, and also my past. I don't think he can handle that I have had more partners than him. I am not proud of it but I can't take it back. It's not my fault she cheated on him. He needs help w/ the fact that just b/c she cheated on him doesn't mean I will. Even if a counselor tells him that until they are blue in the face it wont make him change his mind. He is so damn stubborn!
twice_shy Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 LOL ts! Yep, that's basically it in a nutshell. He cheats, leaves me for OW, begs me to take him back, and then he is the one that is all pissy and jealous when a guy talks to me. I had someone tell me awhile ago I should just cheat then he will have a reason to be so untrusting and jealous. Of course I wont do that but damn, if you aren't going to trust your SO at least have a good reason not to. He didn't trust me even b4 the contact w/ my xlover. I know why he is so mistrusting and jealous, it's b/c his xfiancee cheated on him when they were living together. He moved back and I met him about a year later. He has admitted to me that is one reason why he is the way he is, and also my past. I don't think he can handle that I have had more partners than him. I am not proud of it but I can't take it back. It's not my fault she cheated on him. He needs help w/ the fact that just b/c she cheated on him doesn't mean I will. Even if a counselor tells him that until they are blue in the face it wont make him change his mind. He is so damn stubborn! Have you ever thought about saying fek it, and just moving out and filing for divorce? You don't deserve this, especially from someone that has cheated on you.
Author mopar crazy Posted June 3, 2008 Author Posted June 3, 2008 Have you ever thought about saying fek it, and just moving out and filing for divorce? You don't deserve this, especially from someone that has cheated on you. Yes, I have thought about saying "fek" filing for a D, however I will not be the one moving, he will. I packed up my things, our kids things, the first time, he can move his things this time. I have already did some checking around for lawyers. I have told him that I can't take this crap anymore and if he continues I am filing for a D. He says he is sorry and he doesn't want a D. Saying sorry isn't going to change anything, he'll always be jealous. If he is jealous NOW just wait until I file for a D and when I am ready to date. OMG will he go nuts! He can not stand the thought of another man touching me. Well, if he wasn't being such an immature jerk...
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