purplepoodle Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 My ex has been texting me off and on over the past few weeks. I've responded to a few and ignored some. He is now engaged and we didn't speak at all for over a month before this started. The texts were coming every day for a little while, but now they have dropped down to every few days. For some reason these texts have also gotten very cold, not like him at all. I contact my phone company and they say I can not block a number, only change mine. My question is, why contact someone if your feeling for them are so cold?
ioncebelieved Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Who did the dumping? If you did, I would say he is trying to get back at you. If he dumped you then it would be the lovely head games that all mature adults engage in. Nonetheless, still sounds like games regardless who did the dumping.
Author purplepoodle Posted June 1, 2008 Author Posted June 1, 2008 I broke up with him. Regretted it, tried to contact him a few times in the beginning and got no response. Then he starts this texting over a month later after I stopped trying to contact him. He is with someone else that he loves! If his feelings to me have become cold, why not leave me alone? What do people try to accomplish by playing games like this?
ioncebelieved Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Sweetie, YOU know exactly know what he is doing!!! Sounds like if he is happy and I mean really happy, he is throwing it in your face. It is his moment to show you that you screwed up and lost him. Then it raises the question, why doesn't he get on with his happy life? Just a little payback!!! Nothing more or nothing less I would assume. I'd love to be in his shoes...but I don't think that I would be throwing it in the face of the one that broke my heart. I would just like to feel that happiness again.
Author purplepoodle Posted June 1, 2008 Author Posted June 1, 2008 That's what I thought originally too. He is not the one who told me of the new girl ect.... He's not throwing anything in my face. I wish he would, then I would understand it LOL.
tealeafbud Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 My ex has been texting me off and on over the past few weeks. I've responded to a few and ignored some. He is now engaged and we didn't speak at all for over a month before this started. The texts were coming every day for a little while, but now they have dropped down to every few days. For some reason these texts have also gotten very cold, not like him at all. I contact my phone company and they say I can not block a number, only change mine. My question is, why contact someone if your feeling for them are so cold? purple, only he can answer that question, but I have a feeling that he just wants to basically let you know he exists and that he's still hurt from what you did to him. Believe me, if he was respectful at all to you, then he would leave you alone, or talk to you in a civil manner at least. i think you are doing the right thing by ignoring his texts. I'm sorry because I know it must be difficult.
Author purplepoodle Posted June 2, 2008 Author Posted June 2, 2008 TLB: I remember he exists every day. I regret breaking up with him and would give anything for a second chance. He is with someone else now, so I will continue to move on and never tell him any of that. He should not feel any need to contact me at all and be busy with is new love and his new life
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