v33 Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Hahah, not really, but that's what's been going around. Having a beer across the street and a guy that lives in the area that I have known for the last couple years sits down beside me and we get to talking. Turns out my ex has moved into the same building as him. He has seen her around the bar we used to hang out in over the last couple of years and kinda knows that we split up as her and I were always known as a couple there. We get to talking and he tells me that she has been telling people since LAST SUMMER that I was kicking her out because I was openly gay and had men over at the house!!!!!! Completely untrue! This rumor has been spreading since last summer with people that hang out in the area, mostly at our pub. He tells me he didn't buy it but plenty of people there did and it was the topic of conversation for the last half year or so! I cannot imagine what would have given her that idea, but my friend says that she alway had some story, about me or not, to make people feel sorry for her. I had notice some odd looks and comments from people there over the last few months but thought it was just due to to break up, not this crazy story. Holy crap! If we still had contact I would call her on it, but at this point it seems moot. I must admit I am glad to hear it as it just proves to me what a crazy person she is. I went about clearing my good name with him and the staff there, who never pay attention to this crap anyways. Gay?~?~? Holy crap, I might be a lot of things, but that isn't one of them. The truth is, we split up because we grew apart due to her alcoholism and the fact that she didn't want to get help. But I guess that doesn't make for much of a story with her bar friends.
Trialbyfire Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Wow, what a nutjob. People are weird and will make up stories just to get sympathy. You really are lucky to have gotten away. Imagine a lifetime with this woman. Yikes!
tinktronik Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Wow , the imagination on this one. You have to admit though, it's a pretty good piece of fiction.
Art_Critic Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 You might not want to be seen hanging out with the guy across the street .. fuel for the fire... How does one go about proving that one is not gay once the rumor has been started ?
tinktronik Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 You might not want to be seen hanging out with the guy across the street .. fuel for the fire... How does one go about proving that one is not gay once the rumor has been started ? Public show anyone? Honestly, why even bother catering to the curiosity of others, the story will do the rounds and then burn itself out , just like a terrible infectious virus.
Nemo Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 I was kicking her out because I was openly gay and had men over at the house!!!!!! Alcohol is an amazing thing. It really gets rid of your inhibitions, and releases the real person inside you. There is no shame in being gay. And I should know, because I'm gay (and proud). I think you need to come to terms with your true sexual identity, and drinking heavily is not the solution. Your blackouts are just putting up a wall of denial, and you will never be truly happy until you confront your inner fears. It's okay to be gay. Relax, and begin to enjoy the person you were always meant to be.
Trialbyfire Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Play it up! It will ensure you can get close to almost any girl, then because she's so special, she's converted you back to hetero.
LikeCharlotte Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 I probably hold the world record for the person most lied about after break up. Thankfully I haven't had this problem recently. I've gotten to the point where I just go along with whatever is being said and sometimes throw in a couple sarcastic additions. So far I have heard: I have HIVI am in love with my best female friend I have a heroin problemI cheated with every man in the local area (at least anyone I ever spoke to)I slept with his good friend (they guy was lying to a bunch of buddies to look cool. I'll never understand that one)I was using him for a free ride (I don't even like to let someone pay for dinner)I broke of an engagement (that didn't exist) to sleep with a teenager. (I was talking to a guy that was about 4 years younger than me. By no means a teenager or a sexual partner) The list goes on but boy do I enjoy hearing about all the sex I've never had! I don't think there is enough time in one life time to do all the things that I've done. Enjoy the story and laugh at it. It really is just comical.
Nemo Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 boy do I enjoy hearing about all the sex That's why I'm here. LS rocks for getting your rocks off.
Author v33 Posted June 1, 2008 Author Posted June 1, 2008 Alcohol is an amazing thing. It really gets rid of your inhibitions, and releases the real person inside you. There is no shame in being gay. And I should know, because I'm gay (and proud). I think you need to come to terms with your true sexual identity, and drinking heavily is not the solution. Your blackouts are just putting up a wall of denial, and you will never be truly happy until you confront your inner fears. It's okay to be gay. Relax, and begin to enjoy the person you were always meant to be. No no no, she is the drinker, not me. I go over there for an occasional beer. Not a heavy a drinker by any means. If you were being sarcastic, forgive me, it's hard to get over the net. I have no issues with anyone's sexuality, but bottom line is there is no excuse to make up a story that I am gay when we broke up because SHE is an addict.
LikeCharlotte Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 That's why I'm here. LS rocks for getting your rocks off.Nemo, I like you more every time I read your posts.
Art_Critic Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Nemo, I like you more every time I read your posts. He's taken.. he is in love with himself
Lippy2 Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 You think you know someone.... I can't even phathom that she said those things. Sounds like she really likes attention You are so much better off now, just be glad you found out all the things she was saying and she is no longer in your life.
LikeCharlotte Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 He's taken.. he is in love with himself Well now I'm heartbroken. I was considering a sex change. There is no shame in being gay. And I should know, b. ecause I'm gay (and proud).
carrotgirl Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 V33, a couple relationships ago I was gay after the breakup. It didn't last long because ... I propositioned his best friend for sex, which should have been suspicious since I was gay! It was then necessary for me to become a nymphomaniac. A little while after that I heard I was selling myself to Sararimen. And of course I'm an alcoholic drug abuser addicted to internet porn. Once I attacked and started beating a random stranger passing me on the sidewalk because he/she (I will never know was it a he or a she?) was in my way. Oh and let's see, one night I was able to outsmart the security measures at his company (the bank) and I left notes saying that he was having an affair with his married coworker (which he was). Laugh at the lies as best you can and thank the universe you're not with a creep like that anymore. And gracious, if I'm getting a sex change, I want to be BOTH! Carrot
motive2002 Posted June 3, 2008 Posted June 3, 2008 I had a male roommate for a while. We hung out a lot because we've been best friends since high school, and of course lived together. I'm not sure what image we were putting out, but both my neighbors thought we were gay. Heh, if only we were. I think that relationship could have actually worked!
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