prm0516 Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 ok so i went to a stripclub on friday, and yeah before anyone asks it was a clean stripclub, guys arent allowed to touch and the girls are all clean, but there was this one girl there who is absolutely amazing, really cool down to earth happy nice beautiful, i know these are the qualities of a stripper, but i have to ask, could this case be different? i went there friday and saturday, and both times i went for a dance with the same stripper, the girl is the hottest girl ive ever talked to and last night when i went for the dance she was like, we are gonna talk for a bit first because unlike other guys here you can actually talk to me, so we talked, and she told me about how when she leaves she looks completely different, her makeup is off, she wears mostly hurley and skater stuff, and i told her how my friend is sponsored by hurley for surfing, and we just kept talkin about random stuff, she told me that she loves her job and she was just tellin me about different things for a while, im not gonna lie, as weird as it is, i really like the girl, but yeah, i honestly thought about her all night, then right when i wokeup, she was on my mind again, and i dont know if i should ask her for her # or if she was just doing her job and playing me, i cant tell, and it honestly scares the heck out of me the thought of askin her to lunch before she works or something, i dont know if i should, anyone please help me with what you think, playing me or decent chance, and if i have that awesome chance, what should i say? im speechless.. thankyou for any help in advance
Author prm0516 Posted June 1, 2008 Author Posted June 1, 2008 cmon someone help me im lost here and its killin me
hagi990 Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 Feel the fear and do it anyway, if you don't want to start with "will you marry me"... Spark up a conversation and tell her I have to go but when do finish work? ... she'll reply... ask if she wants to meet up for a coffee etc. and talk more. You'll have your answer to if she likes you. If she's says she's busy and she likes you then she'll offer up another time. This won't tell you if she likes you in a bf way, but if she does want to go out for coffee make sure you compliment her so she knows that your after a relationship first and you'll no doubt take friendship if thats all there is.
donnist Posted June 11, 2008 Posted June 11, 2008 ok so i went to a stripclub on friday, and yeah before anyone asks it was a clean stripclub, guys arent allowed to touch and the girls are all clean, but there was this one girl there who is absolutely amazing, really cool down to earth happy nice beautiful, i know these are the qualities of a stripper, but i have to ask, could this case be different? i went there friday and saturday, and both times i went for a dance with the same stripper, the girl is the hottest girl ive ever talked to and last night when i went for the dance she was like, we are gonna talk for a bit first because unlike other guys here you can actually talk to me, so we talked, and she told me about how when she leaves she looks completely different, her makeup is off, she wears mostly hurley and skater stuff, and i told her how my friend is sponsored by hurley for surfing, and we just kept talkin about random stuff, she told me that she loves her job and she was just tellin me about different things for a while, im not gonna lie, as weird as it is, i really like the girl, but yeah, i honestly thought about her all night, then right when i wokeup, she was on my mind again, and i dont know if i should ask her for her # or if she was just doing her job and playing me, i cant tell, and it honestly scares the heck out of me the thought of askin her to lunch before she works or something, i dont know if i should, anyone please help me with what you think, playing me or decent chance, and if i have that awesome chance, what should i say? im speechless.. thankyou for any help in advance Just be honest about it... if she isn't already in a relationship of course. First ask her how she feels, ask her " if she was just doing her job and playing you". If she asks why, tell her that you're digging her. If you can deal with her stripping then good for you but she sounds like she if loving her job so don't think you're gonna get her to turn away from stripping so easily.
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