MalachiX Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 The other night I was at a cafe/bar rehearsing with two of my actors for a film I'm going to shoot in a week. Two girls walked up, one kind of cute, and asked if they could watch us rehearse. After a while, we got to talking, one mentioned that she was a writer too, and we swapped numbers. Then, my friend George who's handsome, buff, and in the national guard, going to be shipped off overseas in a while, started chatting and it was rather clear to me that, for those interested, he'd be the better catch (not saying this too enviously mind you, George is a great guy). Anyway, I got kind of surprised when the next morning the girl texted me, asking how I was doing. We texted back and forth a few times. Does it sound like she's interested? Is it worth while asking her out for coffee?
D-D Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 I'd say that she was interested. I'd certainly ask her out for coffee. Worst that can happen is she says no.
AndyW Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 YES! I would say if she texted you there is at least some interest to get to know you. Friends, more then friends, who knows. I don't text females (unless they are my friends) if I don't want to get to know them. Like D-D said. Ask her out to coffee or a drink. Something simple. JMO
refurb Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 Why do you automatically assume that your friend is automatically the better catch of the two of you? Do you think that all woman have a universal idea of what makes a man attractive? It seems like boys and girls both do this. I can talk to five of my guy friends about a girl and get opinions that range from "She is so hot" to "Eh... she's OK". I can talk to five of my girl friends about a guy and get the same thing. I've often asked girls if they think a guy is attractive (usually it some guy who I would think that girls would find very attractive) and I'm surprised at the number of times they think they're "OK". The lesson? There are girls out there that think you're attractive and are interested in you. And this one is probably one of them. RF
OpenBook Posted June 1, 2008 Posted June 1, 2008 She might just be keeping in touch with you for professional reasons.
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