*****My girlfriend left me and we have had no contact in 5 days - thoughts?

[ajr555]

I posted on here a few days ago and got the responses I expected in regard to my girlfriend of 2 years abruptly moving out last Tuesday. She suffers from Bi Polar, and is dealing with alcohol and anoxeria issues. My origional post below

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I have sought advise from 3 close friends, 2 of whom know her well. They assured me she still loves me very much, but is hurt. They feel in time I'll get 1 last chance to be with her (I prey they are right). I've sent her 1 quick text or e-mail pr day for the past 5 days simply saying I love you, I miss you, your the most beautiful woman in the world. No calls or AOL IM's (I'm giving her space). I'm still on her IM list and still her #1 friend on myspace. Needles to say. She's not responded to 1 e-mail or text. 1 of my friends said for every year your together, it may take up to 3 months to get them back. She's 29,and I'm 34yrs old

 

I have no doubt this is the woman I want to get married 2. Yes I'm well aware of her issues and prepared to deal with them. If I wasn't I would have been gone a long time ago. I know she was upset when I told her she was getting a ring in March, as of today she never got it. Her parents and I stopped talking, and she wanted us to make up and have me as part of her family. I was to bullheadish and stubborn

 

This is the longest we have gone with no contact in 2 years. How much longer will this last? Would you write her a long letter? e-mail her parents and try to make up with them and tell them how much I'm in love with their daughter?

 

How can I get this woman back in my life?

[dachillaxx]

if there's one thing i learn from my recent break up, its giving her space. my gf broke up with me a month and 2 weeks ago. right after we broke up, i ask to see if there's anyway we can get back together and she said she was confused and need some time and space to sort out her feelings. all i did was annoyed her every other day asking her to take me back. at first, she was tolerable, and after a while, she's doesn't even talk to me anymore. i drove her crazy and despite the numerous times i apologized, the damage is done. give her space. if she love you, she'll come back. i know its tough. its been 6 weeks and i still feel like dying everyday.