daphne Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 So #4-8 have happened since last week. Apparently there's something in the water. Several repeated flirtations from teh past. 4) Early 40's, late 30's. Somewhat attractive. Plays tennis. Told me I was the most naturally beautiful woman he thought he'd ever met. I know he's blowing smoke, but what girl doesn't want to hear that? Sadly, he took the compliment too far by acting desperate, getting too touchy and following me around telling me I was hot. Total turn off. 5) late 20's. Player that was acquaintance of my ex. Tried to play me New Year's several years back after my ex and I broke up. He's being less "player like" and more down to earth. Cute, but still has his baby fat and not my type. And he's too young. 6) Early 30's. Has a girlfriend. No, he's seriously not an option but for some reason when #5 started talking to me and we're flirting a little, he decides to compete and flirt. I felt like a pretzel. I won't lie, it was FUN. 7) Late 20's. Somewhat attractive. Immature but readily admits it. Wanna be player. I am wholly uninterested. Friends with #3 and the group of friends. 8) Late 20's. Former flirtation from a year ago. Friends with #3 & 7 and that group of guys. He is a pretty boy but he was always a little gamey because he lacked confidence. Apparently, #3 decided to tell his group of guy friends about our flirtation last week and #8 came out for the first time in a year dressed up and looking beautiful. He proceeded to c*** block #3 and it was awkward. He's cute but we don't have much in common and he's just there to compete with #3. Which brings me back to #3. He blew it by not texting me back last week. He made a point of coming around to my table this week, but our mutual friends spilled the beans that he'd been talking about me and they know everything. Very, very, awkward. I'm a private person and don't want a bunch of immature boys discussing what's going on. Especially when it sounds like he's trying to stroke his ego about it. As I recall, he was the one that was pushing me to stay and take his number. He tried back pedaling and I didn't make it easy on him. He wanted to hang out this weekend I guess to make up for last. He's sweet and I was interested, but I think I completely lost interest due to gamesmanship or whatever it is he thought he was doing. I didn't rub it in about #8 by overly flirting with him, but I didn't stop him either. Regardless, I knew my interest wasn't high enough due to the age difference. All in all, getting out there and flirting is a blast. It's nice to have a group of guys competing for your attention. Especially when they're all cute and make you feel 20 again. However, still waiting around for guy my age who has his stuff together.
Cov Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 The point of this post was? And what's with the numbers? Where is number three in all of this? What happened to 1 and 2?
Lizzie60 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 So #4-8 have happened since last week. Apparently there's something in the water. Several repeated flirtations from teh past. 4) Early 40's, late 30's. Somewhat attractive. Plays tennis. Told me I was the most naturally beautiful woman he thought he'd ever met. I know he's blowing smoke, but what girl doesn't want to hear that? Sadly, he took the compliment too far by acting desperate, getting too touchy and following me around telling me I was hot. Total turn off. 5) late 20's. Player that was acquaintance of my ex. Tried to play me New Year's several years back after my ex and I broke up. He's being less "player like" and more down to earth. Cute, but still has his baby fat and not my type. And he's too young. 6) Early 30's. Has a girlfriend. No, he's seriously not an option but for some reason when #5 started talking to me and we're flirting a little, he decides to compete and flirt. I felt like a pretzel. I won't lie, it was FUN. 7) Late 20's. Somewhat attractive. Immature but readily admits it. Wanna be player. I am wholly uninterested. Friends with #3 and the group of friends. 8) Late 20's. Former flirtation from a year ago. Friends with #3 & 7 and that group of guys. He is a pretty boy but he was always a little gamey because he lacked confidence. Apparently, #3 decided to tell his group of guy friends about our flirtation last week and #8 came out for the first time in a year dressed up and looking beautiful. He proceeded to c*** block #3 and it was awkward. He's cute but we don't have much in common and he's just there to compete with #3. Which brings me back to #3. He blew it by not texting me back last week. He made a point of coming around to my table this week, but our mutual friends spilled the beans that he'd been talking about me and they know everything. Very, very, awkward. I'm a private person and don't want a bunch of immature boys discussing what's going on. Especially when it sounds like he's trying to stroke his ego about it. As I recall, he was the one that was pushing me to stay and take his number. He tried back pedaling and I didn't make it easy on him. He wanted to hang out this weekend I guess to make up for last. He's sweet and I was interested, but I think I completely lost interest due to gamesmanship or whatever it is he thought he was doing. I didn't rub it in about #8 by overly flirting with him, but I didn't stop him either. Regardless, I knew my interest wasn't high enough due to the age difference. All in all, getting out there and flirting is a blast. It's nice to have a group of guys competing for your attention. Especially when they're all cute and make you feel 20 again. However, still waiting around for guy my age who has his stuff together. I agree it is nice.. and it does make you feel like 20 again for sure.. that's what keeps me young I guess.. But I am not waiting around for a guy my age though... I don't want any serious relationship for now.. I'm still too young..
Author daphne Posted May 31, 2008 Author Posted May 31, 2008 lizzy, I have a feeling that in a few years I'm going to kick myself for not taking advantage of the opportunities. So cute. But sadly, I'm too serious to just have a fling. Plus, even if I did, I'd have to contend with everyone knowing and I couldn't do that.
Cov Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 I agree it is nice.. and it does make you feel like 20 again for sure.. that's what keeps me young I guess.. But I am not waiting around for a guy my age though... I don't want any serious relationship for now.. I'm still too young.. You're an OAP.
Author daphne Posted May 31, 2008 Author Posted May 31, 2008 The point of this post was? And what's with the numbers? Where is number three in all of this? What happened to 1 and 2? Sorry. Didn't see your initial post. The point? It's a dating forum. After breaking up with 2 self absorbed losers, I'm getting a lot of attention again and it's fun. Breakups aren't the end of the world. Apparently, it's the beginning. If you read the title, it says part 2. All of 1, 2, and 3 are in another post if you're really wanted to read it.
Trialbyfire Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Haha...yes, having fun after something more serious is smart. If you consider how rebounding works, it's a bitch on everyone involved, including yourself.
Tomcat33 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Lucky girl, it is just raining rain over on my end of town. :laugh:
Lizzie60 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Lucky girl, it is just raining rain over on my end of town. :laugh: ...............
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