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Well thats it,

 

My gf of 6 months has walked out the door, I know why she left it was really all my fault so little things, Im going to sounds bad etc.

 

Well last night she sent me 50 emails telling me what loves, I felt numb after all the fighting.. etc

 

Well the fighting was about me accusing her of cheating for about 2 months, I have been cheated on etc, so I always had my back covered, then this morning i find out shes using another msn address, not sure if it was guys or nothing i logged on for a sec then i got botted by her and she changed pass, i called her fairly mad asked what the hell is going on she told me it was someone helping her with the madness inside cause of what i did, then i was like you were hiding it? the boom she lost told me to f off, get out her life.. just like that she hung up crying.

 

We had our life planned, she wanted kids shortly also.

 

Now we i try call her shes does not answer, and if i call her home her parents tell me shes not there but shes is i drove past her place.

 

Life is done for me, her best mate hates me, should i just let her go, I love her so dearly

 

Thank.

 

She also told me if i leave she wont love anyone else cause ill take her heart with me.. and she wont do it again cause she put everything into me

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You may have had reason to not trust her. The problem is that if you didn't, it's going to lead to resentment on her part. Nobody likes to be accused unjustly, or accused at all for that matter.

If you are accused of cheating long enough, and are upset about it, you may seek to do that which you have been punished for. In other words, if you didn't do the crime, but received the punishment anyway, it makes actually doing the deed seem more justified.

 

You have to trust. When you really put your faith into someone, they are more likely to reinforce your trust and act accordingly. Does that make sense?

 

How would you feel if someone completely trusted you? You'd want to live up to that expectation, and be trustworthy. If you were not trusted, it would be easier to do stuff behind their back... I mean after all they don't trust you anyway, right?

 

I dunno. Perhaps my logic is flawed, but it seems to me that people act in accordance to how they are treated. Give genuine respect and you'll receive it back. Give genuine trust, and they will be trustworthy. Sure you're taking a risk that they might not be, but you have to take that leap of faith and give your partner the benefit of the doubt.

 

 

Also, don't electronically spy on someone. That's an invasion of privacy and you should never go there for any reason.

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Why did you accuse her of cheating? Did you have evidence? Or just suspicions?

 

If you had suspicions, why did you have them? Were they solid suspicions based upon substantial behavior, or were they suspicions that arose because you were feeling threatened?

 

If you had evidence, or solid suspicion, then just move on. If she cheated after only a few months together and you knew it, then you have all the information you need; she is NOT for you.

 

If you accused her because you were not feeling secure, then you need to take a good hard look at yourself. Because, in this case, it most certainly was your fault and is only a symptom of deeper issues, most likely in your security with yourself.

 

If that is the situation, you need to address it. But this won't happen overnight; it could take a long time. However, the longest journey starts with the first step.

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Well, today i got my call about the army im gone in 6 months, what should I do now...

 

 

Also found out this guy called her a month back was ex, she didnt care though, she just hung up.

 

Also tryed to call her a many times with no asnwer...

 

also wrote this for her shall i send it?

 

Well i thought id send you an email to the one princess,

 

 

Well where to start, I know today was a bad day for you. Even for me

 

I knew you were hiding somthing from me, You could told me the truth, I found out some stuff today, about you and sam, You telling sam everything i did but nothing you did it was all bad. She told me me jarron was also your ex come to think of it.

 

Well your going to be missed, and you know that. I even tryed calling you about 50 times, even your home and you were home. Best sneaky, thats ok.

I found out alot today what was really going on, you dont even want to hear from me that fine, Did you take everything down? If you did its ok =), whats best

is for you, Tyring to get all your emails back, talk to those people you use to, but you were holding out on me. You also sent sam a bday prezzy :)

 

Well I guess this is the last you need to hear from me, As things are done.

 

Today I was called about going to the army, I still have a choice weather to go so yes. And I know you may not care, But ill miss ya Smexi. So damn late im still up thinking about us and everything I should do.

 

I dont expect a reply as you may not, but if not I guess you could say bye.

 

Well good luck with it all, I hope you find who and what you really wanted and make all your dreams real, maybe some day ill see you with everything you wanted.

 

I learnt a leason, true loves wait, i know i may never hear from you again I totally runied us and our dreams but im so thankful that I had that chance with you the princess.

 

Maybe going away I will learn my spot maybe when I come back ull will have it all, cause you are a dream, belive me!

 

The man that catches you is one lucky man, he will have nothing to worry about. But i guess your moving on.

 

As i said you dont need to reply

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well? what shall i do people

 

Also btw if I didnt add when I did ge hold of her yesterday morning, she told me f off.. and forget about her.

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Don't send that email, I didn't bother to read it, she probably won't either. You'll regret it if you do.She is angry with you, thus the F***off. Sending a fuzzy email isn't going to make her feel anything differently. You need to take care of yourself at this point. Anything you do will only push her away.

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just so everyone knows IM HIS X GF AND HIS FULL OF ****, he trys talking to me on msn after i told him to leave me alone begs me to take him back i say no, and then he tells me someone has already asked him on a date and his going to go on it SO HE CAN GO GET F*&%ED, i have never cried so much in my entire life, you were perfect, but you changed. You said you wanted all the things back all our dreams, maybe i would have considered it if you tried to show me you changed. Just because i say no, far out who cares. I HATE YOU AND I HOPE THIS NEW GIRL IS JUST WHAT YOUR LOOKING FOR, cause i never want to hear from you ever again!!!!!!

 

you took my heart forever, but hey just replace it with some other girl. And you even said you were scared and you didnt want me to replace you. im never going to my hearts yours. But hey YOUR F$@^ING REPLACING ME. Understand why im so angry

 

efffffffffffff you!

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Your Soooooooooooo Low How Can You Just Have Another Girl Already, You Ruined Any Chance!!!!!!!!!!!!! Eff You I Hate You So Bad, I Hope The Devil Finds You, Karma Will Get You!!!!

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