imraan47 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Hey all. just joined because i need advice on something that i know i did miserably wrong and should not have excuse to this. so i was at this open bar and a friend of mine introduced me to this girl that came with her and he told me that she is really into me slowly without her hearing. well so i said hi to her then she sat down right infront of me. and i dont know wht i wasn't talking to her. my friend was sitting to and was trying to tell talking to her she is into you big time but then i after pausing for another 30sec i ask her so when did u come here? WTF!!!! then i asked her what are you doing after this (because it was closing down soon as it was 11pm). so then she said i dunno and then i didnt say a word to her because i dont know how to talk to them or i didnt know what the heck to talk about!!! then she waited to 30 secs and told my friend that ok she will go now so she just took off. i dont know why but it was as if i was ignoring her, well atleast she thought i was because i acted that way when i actually thought she looked pretty hot. plz someone tell me what they think on this matter.
Author imraan47 Posted May 31, 2008 Author Posted May 31, 2008 Your friend's "She's into you" screwed you up. how so? i dont see how he screwed me up but instead i screwed it for myself
D-D Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 Sounds like you were probably nervous. Ask your friend for her number. Call her and ask her out.
Pedigree Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 how so? i dont see how he screwed me up but instead i screwed it for myself Think about it, would you have sat there across from her and said nothing if your friend hadn't told you that "she's into you"?
Author imraan47 Posted May 31, 2008 Author Posted May 31, 2008 Think about it, would you have sat there across from her and said nothing if your friend hadn't told you that "she's into you"? well the way the set up was is that i was sitting with my friend and he came with her and told me let me introduce you to her. then he sat down and i offered to bring a chair for her but she said its ok and she sat on hs lap! i ignored it and then immediatly i asked for her name, asked if she worked where my friend worked so she said yes. then i was silent for a long time as it seemed and during this time he was giving me the clue to talk to her as she is into me. actually when he said let me intoduce you to her silently he told me near my ear that she is really into you. so then after the long silence i asked her stupid thing which was so what are you doing after this and mentioned another place that my friends could be going to which really we decided not to go before i even saqw her.
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