Romantic_Girl Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 Hi and I'm in a really tough situation right now. I was with this boy but then we broke up. We were together for about a year and we were still friends. We talked on the phone sometimes and I have been trying to get back together with him because I made a mistake. I was always causing us to have bad times with each other because I wanted him to do stuff that a perfect boyfriend would do. I wouldn't give him space because I was always around him and then I finally learned to give him space. We broke up twice in our relationship because he made mistakes and I took him back because I loved him and I knew if I ever made a mistake I would want to be given a second or third chance. Anyways, we both are friends with this boy and he understood how I was feeling for the boy. The boy I was going with found another girlfriend but he would tell me how she be trippin. So they broke up. I told our friend all my feelings that I had for him and how I was willing to work it out and solve our problems. He wasn't talking to me like he use to because I start trippin. He told me he was in love with me and the girl he was with. Then he said he wants to be with me but then he don't because he's with another girl. I came up to him telling me that he shouldn't be telling me things like he love me and saying he wants to be with me and telling him things that he should be saying. He finally said that I was making things complicated. So thats why he wasnt talking to me much. Then finally I asked our friend if he would talk to him one last time and he said yeah. He told him everything I said to him and the boy finally said YES!!! I was so happy. My birthday was the next day and I thought what a good birthday present. Then on my birthday we were around each other mostly. Then that was the last day of school which was May 20. This was where I made a mistake I kept calling him constantly ever since the last day of school....Blowing up his phone. Then he sent me a text on May 28 telling me that "we need to put our relationship on hold for right now" And I was like what??? So I called his phone and he didn't answer. So really now I am confused. There was a time during our old relationship where he needed a break but he came back to me in like a couple of days saying he wants to be with me saying really sweet things. I asked him why he needed a break he said because his mom was putting him through stress and that he needed time to think and his head was cluttered. But I really don't understand what relationship on hold mean. I really love him and I'm willing to fight for him. Maybe me calling him so much like 3 or 4 times every 5-30 mins was calling him to put a relationship on hold. Someone please give me an answer I'm confused he won't call or answer the phone. I stopped calling after the day he text me we need to put our relationship on hold. Please someone help me!
motive2002 Posted May 31, 2008 Posted May 31, 2008 I asked him why he needed a break he said because his mom was putting him through stress and that he needed time to think and his head was cluttered. This kinda sounds like BS to me. I've had this whole "break" thing thrown at me before. I think he's just keeping his options open. Well, let's look at it from this point of view: If he really loved you, and wanted to be with you, wouldn't he want to be close to you during his troubling times with his mom, and his cluttered head or whatever? He told me he was in love with me and the girl he was with. Then he said he wants to be with me but then he don't because he's with another girl. Ok, there is something seriously wrong with this picture. So maybe he picked you over her, or maybe at some point it was the other way around. Personally I wouldn't stick around to find out. I think you should try to be with someone that wants to be a little more exclusive. It would sure give you a lot more peace of mind!
Recommended Posts