iwanttolive Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 Hi.. When you have arguments with ur partner, have you ever feel disturbed to notice how similar things are with your past r/s? In my past r/s, I was complacent and apathetic. I always ran away from problems, hoping things would resolve by itself and I was dumped three times. This time, I resolved to make things work. But it's my first time trying and I still commit the same old mistakes, e.g. too self-centred, insensitive, speak too fast and listened too little. And when my bf lost his cool, I acknowledged my shortcomings. But I'd be gripped in fear of history repeating itself. That one day, he decides not to work things out anymore and dump me. I'd lose sleep when he doesn't call and feel miserable the entire day. How should I deal with my prob? How do I get a life??
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