Lonelystar Posted May 30, 2008 Posted May 30, 2008 I am so frustrated I could scream. So my "boyfriend"/ "ex"/ "guy who ripped my heart"...whatever the hell he is e-mailed me yesterday. Basically he told me he needed time to "rest his head" and he needs "peacefulness". Whenever things get stressful for him I am the first person he cuts out. I am so sick of it. He can talk to his mom, friends, brother, but not me. And mind you i am not the reason he is stressed out...it is school related. But he feels like he needs to take a break from me. I just don't get it. I am sorry about such an incoherent post...i'm just confused and getting angry. I can't have a part time boyfriend... i hate the fact that I love him. Baaah.
HeartOnSleeve Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 My ex was the same way! He never talked about his stresses with me and it drove us apart. He could talk to everyone else and he always talked to the WRONG people, ie. his two best friends that were trying to destroy our relationship. Really this behavior just shows thier immaturnity level! That is what I tell myself at least. Silly Boys. ""Girls may be crazy....but boys are stupid.....and I'm pretty sure they made us crazy." Hang in there!
justaman99 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 My ex was the same way! He never talked about his stresses with me and it drove us apart. He could talk to everyone else and he always talked to the WRONG people, ie. his two best friends that were trying to destroy our relationship. Really this behavior just shows thier immaturnity level! That is what I tell myself at least. I am a guy and for me this is the truth. The one person I needed to be fully open with and communicate well with was my partner and i didn't do that very well. I was immature. Lesson learned.
Author Lonelystar Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 I don't mind he talks to his family, but I hate that I am not include in it. He say it is because we have a "passionate" relationship and it ways on him emotionally. With his family he doesn't have the same relationship. I agree with this, but blocking me out is only driving us apart. Bleeeh.
cpotter15 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 hey, im in the same sort of situation this week, my bf said he needed some time apart this week as its was his grandads funerall, but now it seems he is carrying on with his own life, with his family and his mates, but completely shutting me out, he has not spoken to me in over a week?!! im so confused, so dont worry i know how you feel. Please reply to me!!!
Author Lonelystar Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 I don't mind he talks to his family, but I hate that I am not include in it. He say it is because we have a "passionate" relationship and it ways on him emotionally. With his family he doesn't have the same relationship. I agree with this, but blocking me out is only driving us apart. Bleeeh. I want to apologize for leaving words out and the misuse of "way". What I meant was, " I don't mind if he talks to his family".. "and it weighs on him emotionally". Drinking before posting is not such a good idea . Secondly cpotter 15. I wish I knew what to tell you. Just give him so time if you think that will help. You need to move on with your life though. Try focusing on yourself. It sucks when they ignore you, but why be with someone who does?
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