Author wareagle Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 Ok this is like a never ending saga for me. I was at work today and she sends me a text saying (Hey Ya'll Guess what? --- and I are five weeks pregnant Praise God Keep the four of us in your prayers.) Ha Ha WTF, I DON'T CARE YOU ****ING CUNT! So here's my question? Should I have my number changed or block her from being able to contact me? Will this tell her that it is bothering me that she keeps contacting me? Or should I just continue on ignoring her? Honestly it does bother me a little bit, but each time she sends me something it just makes me realize how lucky I was that she dumped me! It makes me see what kind of person she really is and how lucky I am to not be apart of her life anymore. What do you guys think?
LikeCharlotte Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Ok this is like a never ending saga for me. I was at work today and she sends me a text saying (Hey Ya'll Guess what? --- and I are five weeks pregnant Praise God Keep the four of us in your prayers.) Ha Ha WTF, I DON'T CARE YOU ****ING CUNT! So here's my question? Should I have my number changed or block her from being able to contact me? Will this tell her that it is bothering me that she keeps contacting me? Or should I just continue on ignoring her? Honestly it does bother me a little bit, but each time she sends me something it just makes me realize how lucky I was that she dumped me! It makes me see what kind of person she really is and how lucky I am to not be apart of her life anymore. What do you guys think?You should tell her that you want her to stop. If she doesn't then block her. I'm all for the direct approach. Text back "I don't want to hear from you again. Remove me from your contacts please". Simple.
Chrome Barracuda Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 Ok this is like a never ending saga for me. I was at work today and she sends me a text saying (Hey Ya'll Guess what? --- and I are five weeks pregnant Praise God Keep the four of us in your prayers.) Ha Ha WTF, I DON'T CARE YOU ****ING CUNT! So here's my question? Should I have my number changed or block her from being able to contact me? Will this tell her that it is bothering me that she keeps contacting me? Or should I just continue on ignoring her? Honestly it does bother me a little bit, but each time she sends me something it just makes me realize how lucky I was that she dumped me! It makes me see what kind of person she really is and how lucky I am to not be apart of her life anymore. What do you guys think? God block thisick because apparently she doesnt understand when you talk to her. Stop caring!!!
underpants Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 So I asked our mutual friends today at work and guess what? Yep they didn't recieve anything from her! Too funny! I had one of the best day's I have had since March today, it's like a huge weight has been lifted off of my heart! I hope I am not just supressing any hurt feeling's that may come out later. I don't know why I feel so relieved, can anyone answer this question for me? Well, that is funny. In a way. What a little ...something. You probably feel relieved because the fact that she lied and that she sent that validates what a good decision it is to have dodged such a bullet. I do agree that keeping up with the no contact would probably be the best thing for you. Although, that evil little part of me would want to respond to it like: "I've met someone very special as well. Congratulations to both of us". However, that idea might be best mused rather then acted upon.
justaman99 Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 What kind of person announces a marriage and a pregnancy over text? Think about that.
teejsd2008 Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 My ex also contacted me saying she was getting married after 3 months. I later found it was all BS and a ploy to bait me for hurt, so she can get her ego fix. stay strong, even if it's true then she sounds unstable, so wish/pray for the best for her because she'll need it.
Surfer Girl Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 Marriage, then baby... To me it looks as though she wants a reaction out of you... The best thing you can do is not respond... "Silence is one of the hardest things to refute" Josh Billings...
Lookingforward Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 Well, that is funny. In a way. What a little ...something. You probably feel relieved because the fact that she lied and that she sent that validates what a good decision it is to have dodged such a bullet. I do agree that keeping up with the no contact would probably be the best thing for you. Although, that evil little part of me would want to respond to it like: "I've met someone very special as well. Congratulations to both of us". However, that idea might be best mused rather then acted upon. LOL, I LOVE it
sultry33 Posted June 10, 2008 Posted June 10, 2008 these are really desperate acts.. maybe at the begining you would kind of expect things like these but now.. i agree its all bs you need to change your number.. she is playing for your attention and will keep on til she gets bored.. finds another victim.. next she will be saying she is 3months plus! dont responde, dont say you have someone why play "the games" you are better than this.. nc is best for you, just think wow your free, i would, i have had a stalker and they will do anything to get your attention..dont go for the ride;)
Ssheena Posted June 15, 2008 Posted June 15, 2008 I agree with Caliguy. Don't contact her, don't respond and to make it easier on your, block her from being able to text you. Good on you going NC and maintaining it and for seeing her as she really is now. You get a GOLD STAR!!! and a A+++ and a 5 (if that's the highest grade in your country).
Author wareagle Posted June 15, 2008 Author Posted June 15, 2008 Thanks to everyone for their insight on my situation. Thanks ssheena for giving me a high grade LOL! I haven't contacted her and I don't plan on it! My bday was yesterday and I was thinking she might send a happy birthday text, but I got nothing and I am thankful for that! I'm over three months out now and contacting her would put me back to day one cause I know how cold and callous she would be toward me, and I don't need that! I have accepted it's over and I am moving on with my single life. Not really ready to get back in the dating pool, but I am working on that. No need to rush things even though I am getting older haha!
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