Author DunnoWhat Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 You might have blown it by the comment but you really blew any chance of bouncing back by not giving her a call. Girls expect calls after a date, you don't call, you don't get a second date. Text message = lack of confidence + lack of interest. Even though you blew it by the comment, you could have called and engaged her in a fun converstaion and then asked her out again. It might be too late, but you can give it a final try. I really mean the final try. Don't forget to use the phone and be honest and nice. Don't bring up the weight issue, compliment her on something else you like about her. I did the similar but the opposite thing. I told my date on the second date that I like her. Called her the next day, it has been 4 days and she han't returned my call I did nothing else wrong on the date, she was happy, shared some stuff with me, however, I might have come too strong too fast Its a delicate matter, be careful. It is all about balance but in the majority of cases it's best to do it my way and not call much and show them you don't need them. The last thing a woman wants is a man texting and calling her as she is making up her mind. I need to learn my lessons too and get that balance right but it's about the woman too and every woman is different.
Trialbyfire Posted June 4, 2008 Posted June 4, 2008 When a woman is interested, she will reciprocate in some way, even if it's the return of one small message, like "Hi, how are you?". You've gone above what I would have recommended. Anything further would be annoying.
Author DunnoWhat Posted June 4, 2008 Author Posted June 4, 2008 Well guess what she sent me an email tonight saying thanks for the email (the goodbye email I sent saying thanks and we had a good time etc) last night. She said she'll be busy with work for a few months and she said she was sorry that she didn't get to see my message on the dating site because she deleted her profile and didn't see it (which she did). And she also said she loves the funny emails I send her. So the last email must have softened her attitude because before that she was definetly avoiding me and even ignoring me completely. She acted all nice in the email tonight but really it's probably just to make her feel better after my email pulled on her guilt strings! It's over now anyway as far as I'm concerned. Thanks for all your replies! When a woman is interested, she will reciprocate in some way, even if it's the return of one small message, like "Hi, how are you?". You've gone above what I would have recommended. Anything further would be annoying. Is that me you're talking to or George?
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