luvinghim625 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 This is all very confusing but he is coming up here in the morning and i need so advice ASAP Sorry it's long just wanted to give ya good detail so you could give good answers!! !!! My boyfriend and i got together in 04 we were and still are young and was in high school ..We loved each other VERY much he would do anything for me. Well I got pregnant and we now have a 2 year old daughter. We have been together off and on for 2 years now..We do love each other but ive messed up a lot and i was only 15 when we got together he was 18 but i just didn't know what i really wanted but now i do...Well he is with my Cousin out of all the people he is with my cousin(2nd cousin at that)...which does make me mad but i act like it doesn't bother me... well I'm 5 months pregnant with his child again..My ex and my cousin have only been together since Feb this year. So it's not that serious i don't think... But i do know she is trying to get pregnant so he will stay with her. and ive already told him if that does happen he wont be aloud around his kids which really i don't have to stop him ...She will...He is just shy and i was his first gf so he doesn't know how vindictive girls can be...I love him very much and i do want to get back with him i just don't know what to say to him..because i've told him i was sorry and that i love him several times in the past n he took me back every time then i'd go out on him after a month or so ..not necessarily having sex with other guys just hanging out with them.But i will admit i have done that 2...which i know is a big mistake now... i know im going to have 2 kids by him i love him so why not be with him is the way i see it..but i know he is scared of getting hurt...I just don't know the right words to say to him to let him know im being serious..if you could help i would be happy!!! I just want to be able to say something to wake him up and let him really see..We have been spending a lot of time together and he goes to the doctor with me and everything ..Which my cousin really hates but she's just gonna have to get use to it ..Thats what he says ..He also says she always bitches even when he just come up here to see his daughter...Sooo..I dunno what to do or expect HELP!!! Thanks!!
SeraBella Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I guess your school never encouraged any type of birth control? I don't think I'd want to be with a man who doesn't seem to think it's a big deal to just keep having children, but ok. Explain to him your feelings. Tell him what you want, tell him you want to raise your family together, tell him how you feel about his relationship, etc. Just tell him everything. What have you got to lose? It's not like you'd be losing him since you don't have him.
Author luvinghim625 Posted May 30, 2008 Author Posted May 30, 2008 First of all no they don't talk about bc...but really thats none of your business how many kids i want or gonna have... Second of all i bet you would fell like crap if you knew i have cervical cancer now and this is my last child that i'll ever have if this one even makes it...Thanks for you opinion just try not to be so rude... u don't know every little detail so dont jump the gun!
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