purplepoodle Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I was doing pretty good but I'm having a problem getting over the whole seeing him sh*t. I keep blaming myself. I keep beating myself up over the new girl and being replaced so quickly. Is she prettier? Smarter? Nicer? Funnier? It's a bad cycle and I can't seem to snap out of it. No bunnies for me tonight
replicator Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I hear you. I'm at the same place. Today everything hit me so hard, it was like I nose dived into depression. When you feel the pain, just let it wash over you. I feel like it builds up, to a boil, then it spills over. Continuously. Just believe that each time it will get better. Just imagine how strong you will be once you recover from this.. This is what I tell myself. It seems impossible sometimes to think that you'll get over this. I feel the same way. Like I'll always wish I could have saved us, but I know that I need to let it go. Focus on yourself and what you need to do to succeed. Set a goal and start moving towards it.
JustPassingThru Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 It's never easy being replaced. It has happened to all of us at some point. The thing is, when another person moves into their life, it gives me closure. Maybe it's not the same for everyone. But why would you want that person back after they replaced you? It's hard, but start focusing on you. Figure out what you can do to make yourself even better. Working out/Running any form of exercise is a really good outlet. It helps release those pent up emotions, and makes you look better. Pick up the pieces, move on, and don't look back.
foxh1234 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 It's never easy being replaced. It has happened to all of us at some point. The thing is, when another person moves into their life, it gives me closure. Maybe it's not the same for everyone. But why would you want that person back after they replaced you? It's hard, but start focusing on you. Figure out what you can do to make yourself even better. Working out/Running any form of exercise is a really good outlet. It helps release those pent up emotions, and makes you look better. Pick up the pieces, move on, and don't look back. This is one of the best posts I have ever read on LS. It is so true, why would I want a person back after they replaced me. The answer is I don't. Thanks for this post, it really hit home with me.
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