MissingMyHubby Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 so i wrote back to the girl i want to ask out to a wedding this summer, and mentioned if she had IM, which was what another member here on a different board said i should do (in my last thread) this is her reponse to me. Better pic. Thanks! I am not sure who that scary guy is that you were posing as, but he is forever going to haunt my nightmares! I am rarely on IM, I don't even remember the last time I was. But...if you get on it and want to chat, let me know and I will jump on and chat with ya. I am that cool and giving of a person! haha. My "getting outta dodge" didn't really end up happening in so many words. I was actually going to move to ****, but last minute, plans changed. It was because of a guy, I'm ashamed to say. But, he is history. Deuche bag city! I resigned from coaching this year, as I wasn't as in love with it as I should have been. I was a runner, not a teacher of running. Once I got injured, and wasn't able to motivate by example, I love focus and interest for the most part. So, I applied for a photography job in ****, ****** and got it. I started yesterday. I think I will have more fun doing that (since that was part of my major). The time goes by very fast there, so I can't complain. Days in the office as a coach dragged. I never looked forward to going in and watching other people race (and trying to be happy for them) when all you want to do yourself is race...is hard! So, me, my two dogs and my cat live in ****** now. It is outside of *****, so I made it about 15 miles from ******! Not bad. A start to getting outta dodge right?!?! I'm just trying to figure out where my life is going to go next. Aren't we all!? I am a pretty boring person. I'm sure that sells me as ultra cool and amazing! But, it's the truth. I like pretty calm, relaxing things. I like listening to music, working on art stuff, chillin with the mutts while watchin a movie, being outside, hangin with fam, etc. Pretty normal things. I am pretty quiet most of the time, but I'm pretty sarcastic and funny too...at least I think so. haha. Other than that, I got nothin. That is everything you need to know about me! I am pretty average believe it or not. Seeya! thoughts??
btc8 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 It doesn't sound like a complete loss. She offered to sign on and chat over AIM, and her letter reads as though she is interested enough to write down all that stuff. I would just ask for her number, then wait the standard 5 days or something, call her, and then chat a little bit via phone. If that works, then ask her out on a few dates, that way you'll be able to segue into asking her to the wedding rather than just asking her straight up. Not that you'd care to hear what I really think, but since I'm the first one responding, I will take it upon myself. She seems a tad boring, if not totally honest, but it comes off as a bit boring and blase to me. Try it out and see what happens.
Tomcat33 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 My thoughts are: should you really be posting a letter this woman sent to you in confidence and in private? Why do I feel like this is wrong?
whichwayisup Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Try it out and see what happens. Yup, why not just see how it plays out?
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