Kellicakes Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Well the thing is, if you've read my other posts...I'm trying to deal with my boyfriend dumping me about a week ago after becoming distant witihin the last month. We got along very well, I thought things were progressing then he says that he can't juggle a GF with all of his problems...has too much going on, etc. This was after being together for a few months and after meeting his family and becoming close. Bam, he doesn't want to be with me anymore. So, i haven't been contacting him...in fact he texted me over the weekend that he "misses me" and really screwed up my head. The thing is, and I know this is not good....he is still one of my friends on my myspace page. i know that sounds juvenile, but I only keep my page because it's a great way to keep up with friends and also my brother who is out of state. Anyway, I haven't been looking at his page, but i do look at my friends status updates, and he changed his tonight to "blissful". Oh ****ing great! I am sitting here with my heart in pieces, barely making it from day to day and he left me in the dust and now he is blissful???!!!! I know, I know, what else should I expect right? I was so good to him, and he just threw me away like nothing. I wish i could turn off my feelings.
Author Kellicakes Posted May 29, 2008 Author Posted May 29, 2008 Can anyone help me with this? ;( Of course i don't hate him. On the contrary, i love him. And the issue is not really myspace....the issue is I gave him my all and he just threw our relationshp away lke it didn't even matter. I don't know the specifics of why he said he is "blissful" now, i just know it hurts to see that he is so happy while I am here in pieces. Just helps to write ths stuff out.
LikeCharlotte Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 You just have to go through it. The sooner you see that everything he does is not centered on you the faster you will heal. My best advice is that you be honest with yourself. He threw it away. Its going to hurt like hell and thats ok. Just go with it and the pain will be over soon enough. If it makes you feel any better maybe hes is blissful because he had a good day or won a lottery. I've said it before... you only hate him because you love him.
northstar1 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Hi Kellicakes Well, as much as it may be hard to do, you may want to either delete him off myspace or stop checking it. I know the impulse is tough, but it will probably just continue to upset you and you will being to try and read into any little thing you find on there (updates, comments etc). Can you keep up No Contact?
sultry33 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 this is the reason i now dont use face book my space.. too many messages from him on there from before.. plus mde me look at his profile.. so i have removed the accounts.. i can live without it an seeing any emiotion ie happy, horny, sad.. confused would make me think why.. so my advice delete x
Exl Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 found it interesting - being him a man - that he used the very same excuses that my ex. not being able to deal with stuff at the moment with a boyfriend along. hate is natural. in a way it protects you for a while, even if it's not the healthiest feeling in the world, but does block certain stuff from messing you up even more. I've been through that the last days. I love her, yes, even though I had to be the dumper. Yet I hate her for everything she did and everything she still does. While you had him getting distant from you for a month, I've done it for about a year before I couldn't simply take it anymore. can't really offer much advice but hope all turns out good, either way. let me know if you find that magic pill for heartbreak!
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