jadedone Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 After 6 days of NC we talked online today. Turns out her job was extended 2 more weeks, and she's been helping her sister get her house ready to be put up for sale. She has just been very busy, and hasn't fogotten me. Still wants to hangout, but waiting until the job is over. I kept it cool, and we just talked. I feel so much better.
sultry33 Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 hi j, im pleased for you, just be careful.. i know you are playing the waiting game like me too i emailed my ex today, deleted his number but kinda wish i hadnt damn never know what to do for the best.. brain says steer clear heart wont let go:o i asked him to drop me a text when he is not busy..
kizik Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 Of course you feel better, love is just another drug. And even though you are keeping it casual, there is a part of you that thinks you two are getting back together. I am not judging you, I know I will feel some kind of weird relief when my ex and I finally talk... but I don't have anything to say to her. Why are you guys going to hang out? Are you ready, as in, healed enough to do so without hurting?
tealeafbud Posted May 28, 2008 Posted May 28, 2008 After 6 days of NC we talked online today. Turns out her job was extended 2 more weeks, and she's been helping her sister get her house ready to be put up for sale. She has just been very busy, and hasn't fogotten me. Still wants to hangout, but waiting until the job is over. I kept it cool, and we just talked. I feel so much better. I just hope you don't feel an hollow emptiness after your conversation. You really need to assess whether you both are going to give it another shot, or just hang out. You may end up being more confused than previously.
Author jadedone Posted May 29, 2008 Author Posted May 29, 2008 I just hope you don't feel an hollow emptiness after your conversation. You really need to assess whether you both are going to give it another shot, or just hang out. You may end up being more confused than previously. I know that it will be just to hang out at first. We only broke up because she she had a lot of issues to take care of that were taking up her time and overwhelming her. Shortly after we talked, she updated her Myspace status with "Things can change a lot in a short period of time." I'm not putting all my hope into that small opening, but I feel better about things and willing to give it some time.
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