Tomcat33 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 What makes them so special that I need to jump through hoops for anyway ? That when a woman loves you she will jump through hoops for you as well, and you never have to pay for that.
nylah Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 So you don't know if a girl will show you affection for free? ?????
dreamergrl Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I see a sex addiction problem here, only doomed to get worse.
btc8 Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 You should seek counseling for sex addicts anonymous or something along those lines. It's not unheard of to be addicted to soliciting sex from prostitutes on a regular/habitual basis. Since it's also safe to assume that you are fairly comfortable fiscally speaking, you may find it useful to talk to a therapist or psychiatrist about your problem. Also, and above all else, be sure to test yourself for any sexually-transmitted diseases. Expensive prostitute or not, HIV or other STD's aren't partial.
Mustang Sally Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 I'd rather do what I did than remain a virgin and therefore let women control my life. I got it up her, and it doesn't matter to me if I had to pay for it or not, sex is still just sex. Maybe, if women are so bloody gracious one of these so called 'viable' women might have let me perform the act. Nah, they don't give a stuff about me or any other bloke in the same position, so why should I care ? What makes them so special that I need to jump through hoops for anyway ? Ok. I was thinking that sex was something to be best enjoyed with a person with whom one has a more meaningful relationship than dirty talk and the going hourly rate. Probably my silly little feminine ways influencing my response here a bit too much. If this (see your quote, above) is what sex is to you - the end goal of '[getting] it up her,' then I guess your current apporach is adequate - nay, probably even preferred. But methinks you sound a bit bitter. I'm sorry you've had a difficult time in the relationship arena, according to what you imply in the above quote. Maybe you could share some of your experiences with past relationships that you have failed to consummate, and the wisdom of LS might be able to illuminate for you why you have missed achieving that goal? Just a thought. Peace.
Untouchable_Fire Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 But methinks you sound a bit bitter. I'm sorry you've had a difficult time in the relationship arena, according to what you imply in the above quote. Lots of young men are similarly bitter. Just read through all the "nice guy" threads. Interestingly, I once had a Highschool friend who was similarly afflicted with poor luck in the female department. Funny thing is that once he stopped chasing after the prettiest girls, he started to have better luck, and was happier too! I read this thread... and I have no sympathy for the superficial!
Storyrider Posted May 29, 2008 Posted May 29, 2008 Here's another way to save your money, MaxManwell. (Interesting name............) Why don't you just give it a wank several times a day? Really. I'm not even being facetious. It'd save you a load (pun intended).... And then you can cut back on your work hours in order to meet a woman with whom you might be able to enter into a VIABLE relationship with (instead of some fantasy relationship of convenience....if you get my drift, "mate"). Good luck with that. Good idea, Mustang. He needs to be true to himself, so to speak.
Author MaxManwell Posted May 30, 2008 Author Posted May 30, 2008 What's that supposed to mean? I have sympathy and compassion for all of God's creatures, and Hell... I'm a blasted atheist. That an attractive 19-25 year old woman has many, many avenues for gainful employment besides prostitution. If she decided to earn over 6 figures from the age of 19 instead of working elsewhere that is her fault.I can't be blamed for being male and taking a product sold on the market.
Author MaxManwell Posted May 30, 2008 Author Posted May 30, 2008 Lots of young men are similarly bitter. Just read through all the "nice guy" threads. Interestingly, I once had a Highschool friend who was similarly afflicted with poor luck in the female department. Funny thing is that once he stopped chasing after the prettiest girls, he started to have better luck, and was happier too! I read this thread... and I have no sympathy for the superficial! I did try that and it was at that point (lowering my standards) that I realised how frivilous my search was at that time. You would be amazed how terrible a personality some of these prettyless girls have. They're either bitter and hate men, have no personality at all or are those career HR types that judge you by how much money you make. Then there are the ones that are overweight and won't change it or very unattractive to begin with. A decent looking girl with a normal personality doesn't stay single for long and there is always a lot of comptetition for her. Good looks get a diminishing return to scale she just needs to meet an acceptable standard and I'll be happy provided she is a good person. Do not make the mistake of assuming that an attractive woman is automatically shallow and that an unattractive one is a better person experience has taught me the opposite.
MrsHellnoFire Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 Just curious, but are these the run-of-the-mill street hookers, escorts, or brothel women? Why do you want to break the habit? Is it guilt or worry, etc? Or do you feel this is keeping you back from finding a real relationship? Anyways, STAY SAFE! Those girls might be gorgeous but I'm sure many are disease carriers. TC!
MrsHellnoFire Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 What are you doing to yourself man? Think about it... Think about what your doing... Imagine how your true lover will feel when she finds out you have slept with all these whores... Dont you think she will loose respect for you? Dont you worry that the actions you do now will haunt your future? What you are doing is sleazy and in most womens eyes disgusting beyond belief. It shows women that you do not respect them, that you look at them as mere objects of affection... Do you realize that you are forever damaging your future by allowing yourself to fall to this level? Not only that, its unhealthy and very dangerous for your health. You said yourself you are loosing ambition for a real relationship... Do you really want to spend your entire life paying women to be with you? You will never truly know the meaning of love, you will never experience the happiness from having a soul mate... You will always feel empty and alone, without purpose... Is that what you want? Is that how you want to live? All of your life working and giving money away for a few minutes... You will never be able to lay in bed and hold your lover in your arms and sleep with her against your body. You will never be able to look her in the eyes and tell her that you love her, and her tell you... You will never be able to feel the security of a relationship, the great foundation of love and sexuality that comes from your partner... Sex is only sex, but what sex lacks is love... You will spend your whole life having sex with random whores, never able to make love to any of them... You will waste away, empty and alone, wishing that you would have put the effort and money towards a real meaningful relationship. Your legacy will die with you and you will never bare children. You could possibly catch an STD and die a young man. You are destroying yourself greater than you can even see... If I were you, I would stop now, bury this addiction, and change your perspective on women. You have two hands, one to slap yourself with when you do wrong, the other to jerk off with when you require sex. Use them. He'll probably lie because I don't think any woman would like to hear that nasty crud! LOL!
MrsHellnoFire Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 That an attractive 19-25 year old woman has many, many avenues for gainful employment besides prostitution. If she decided to earn over 6 figures from the age of 19 instead of working elsewhere that is her fault.I can't be blamed for being male and taking a product sold on the market. Why does compassion for another equate with guilt for you? Nobody is trying to make you feel guilty. Everyone has their own life story and you should not judge those that you really know zilch about- it's ignorant.
slatko Posted June 2, 2008 Posted June 2, 2008 I have tried some prostitutes myself. And I can tell you, you can't compare a service you paid for with the experience of sharing a wonderful time with a women who really likes you. It's like having sex compared to jerking off: both feels nice, and you'll cum in both ways, but the later one will give you a much better feeling. Since you're writing this here, you know you've got a problem. So why not just sticking throu, and overcomming that addiction?
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